Hello there!!
I personally don't have any Bears, partly because of the reviews on them, ant the general concensus that the handles are too brittle, and seem to break a lot.
I do like the fact that they have had a damascus blade in production for a reasonable price.
I wouldn't mind taking a bear apart ant re-handling it.
As far as the weight, I thought that the Benchmade were slightly heavier, so do you mean that you like lighter handles?