A little rugby story...
I was once a scrum-half in my high school team. And I'd thought that my fly-half has buttered fingers...he could not catch any balls I'd feed him.
Me and him always had to go against each other......
So one day our couch said...you Alex(astro) the scrum-half switch *-----* the fly-half and played a game. We both went ?????
It actually turned out that I....had the buttered fingers that I couldn't hold on to the ball that the guy'd fed me and I was mad at myself.
And the guy that was used to be fly-half.....said to me later...Geees I was getting bumped out there from all sides as a scrum half.....then he said 'now I'd know why you'd been feeding me all those craps....coz 3 other guys on the other side is trying to get at you !"
Then I said.....bud the crap's all mine and I'd take the blame.
He said...No the blame's all mine.....
We played well together ever since.....
Lesson in life.....put yourself in the others' shoes.....
I was once a scrum-half in my high school team. And I'd thought that my fly-half has buttered fingers...he could not catch any balls I'd feed him.
Me and him always had to go against each other......
So one day our couch said...you Alex(astro) the scrum-half switch *-----* the fly-half and played a game. We both went ?????
It actually turned out that I....had the buttered fingers that I couldn't hold on to the ball that the guy'd fed me and I was mad at myself.
And the guy that was used to be fly-half.....said to me later...Geees I was getting bumped out there from all sides as a scrum half.....then he said 'now I'd know why you'd been feeding me all those craps....coz 3 other guys on the other side is trying to get at you !"
Then I said.....bud the crap's all mine and I'd take the blame.
He said...No the blame's all mine.....
We played well together ever since.....
Lesson in life.....put yourself in the others' shoes.....
