A stroll down memory lane...a good lesson learned.

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I remember the day that my grandfather sat me down at the age of 9 and asked me if I had a knife? Which of course I didnt because mom thought i was to young. He told me that every boy or man should carry a knife. Not as a weapon, but as a tool. I told him about how you couldn't have knives in school, which he said was a shame, because for him when he was in school, every boy in the class had a pocket knife on him. He proceeded from then to educate me on how to use, sharpen and care for a knife. He refered to a pocket knife as, "Man's real best friend, which should be taken care of and treated like a good hunting dog."

He was a traditionalist, he only swore by carbon steel blades and wood or cattle bone handles. He said stainless steel knives were a "lazy man's knife", but said none the less no matter what knife I get, treat it with respect and keep it sharp and properly maintained. I once mentioned using a knife as a weapon, and he took my knife from my hands, and said a knife should only be used as a weapon in a last means of defense, but by saying that, he didn't think I was ready for knife carry, for fear I was gonna use it as a weapon.

As I later proved to him I was ready, he gave me my knife back, and because of him I now know how to use, sharpen and care for my knives, and respect them. Back when we were growing up, most of us were fortunate to have this kind of lesson taught to us by our fathers and grandfathers. Unfortunatly in todays world, this is happening less and less, and thats why the world isn't looking at the knife so much as a tool anymore, but more as a weapon.

I believe if lessons like this were still taught today, than the thought of carrying a knife wouldn't make so many people or police cringe.
I remember hearing a saying from a long time ago, not sure who said it, but it goes like this,

"A man and his pocket knife, its a perfect combination. With his knife, he is ready to take on the world. Take his knife away, and he will surely die."
 
Excellent post, Thanks. Every boy/child should have a Grandfather like yours. I'm 43 and even when I was in school in up-state NY, we carried openly (very small farming town). Those days are gone for good, I'm afraid. It's not that I feel strongly that kids should carry knives in school, it's the coinciding change in attitude...like you said, tools are now only weapons. All we can do is to do the best we can with our own children.
 
I'm 43 as well. We all had lockblades on our belts in high school.

My grandfathers both died early, but my father is a knife collector from before I was born. He told me "never leave the house without a good knife in your pocket." For 30 years, I've heeded his advice.

I remember being at Yosemite when I was very young, him showing me show to sharpen on a stone...

My son received a leatherman wave from my father when he turned 13. My daughter just received a pink kershaw leek from me for her 13th...
 
Thank you for sharing your stories about carrying on the tradition. I tell my daughter to always respect her father's knives, or anyone's, as being sharp, and that they are used as handly tools. Do anyone still carry on the tradition of giving a penny to someone when they get a knife as a gift?
 
that story brought me images of the movie "Conan: The Barbarian."

Ever heard about "the riddle of steel"?
 
Do anyone still carry on the tradition of giving a penny to someone when they get a knife as a gift?
When my parents bought me a Swiss Tool Spirit my mom taped a penny to the box, so yes some people still follow that tradition.
 
I'm 49 , so I was in grade school during the 1960's...

On Fridays we were allowed to wear our Cub Scout uniforms to school. For me that meant to include my father's boy scout knife on my belt.
 
I carried my pocket knife in high school in the late 90's and no one said anything about it. Hell I even used it a few times in Science and Ag classes. I have a younger brother that graduated in 06 and it was totally different in the short span of 6 years.

I really do not understand what has everyone so afraid of someone carrying a tool on their person, but happily use 12 inch kitchen knives in the Home Ec classroom. It sort of makes me sad when in the area I live, which is still somewhat rural, that the not many grown men carry a pocket knife anymore.
 
Without a pocket knife a man will surely die? There must be a lot of doomed people out there. I think knives are almost a cult. Kind of scary...
 
Without a pocket knife a man will surely die? There must be a lot of doomed people out there. I think knives are almost a cult. Kind of scary...
Nothing "scary" about it. Maybe the quote over-emphasizes things a bit now-a-days. However, there can always be times where simply having a knife can make all the difference. If you are indeed "taking on the world", that implies that the chips are really down...you'd better have a blade. What's more scary to me is the way modern society is turning up its nose to those who choose to carry a blade or firearm for convenience or self defense. You maybe typify that wich is being addressed in this thread? Or maybe I'm reading too much into it.
 
When I was in school I always carried my boy scout knife. Even though we were not allowed to have it in school. I even lent it to teachers sometimes.
 
Thank you for sharing your stories about carrying on the tradition. Do anyone still carry on the tradition of giving a penny to someone when they get a knife as a gift?

My brother in law does. I actually never heard of it before that. My father didn't have that tradition.
 
Nice story jd. Brings back fond memories.

IIRC, the penny started out with the French many years ago. Superstition was that a gift of a knife or anything sharp might "cut" the friendship or cause harm to the recipient. So the penny was offered back to the giver as payment, creating a transaction, eliminating the "gift".
 
jdailey4206966,

Excellent post!

I am 53, and I feel kids should be "raised right" today as your post shared.

Parents should parent, mentors should mentor, and when the kids get bigger, they pass forward as passed to them.

I still start a new person be they a kid or adult, with a carbon steel pocket knife, a Norton stone, and pass forward as passed to me.

How raised-what you do.

Steve
 
you grasped it right on here. If you have a child or grand child, you are obligated to "pass the torch" on to a new generation, so the flame that has been passed down to us that originated many generations before us, will never die. The best weapon one can possess is knowledge.
 
I'm 24, and my dad told me that he remembers his father trading knives with random guys at the store. He said that after meeting someone, it was perfectly normal to just say "swap knives?" and if the other obliged, they would agree to the swap before seeing eachothers pieces. Nowadays, that isn't such a good idea. I would end up swapping my Sebenza for a flea-market "automatic" POS. Man I was born in the wrong generation.

check out my youtube video to see my comparison of the good ole days vs. the current days.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b7xRbJyD6ok

...its short.
 
jk904jk,

I thought that was a great video.

THG, I to share the same view as you

"This just confirms and reinforces my great shame in my generation."

I have always gave a coin, or recived a coin when i got/gave a knife.
 
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