15 years experience of messing with and building PCs makes me think you need the following to fix your problem
Theres no need to go so high end, any run of the mill claw or club hammer will probably do the job but that leather handle and forged shaft will just make it that bit easier on the hand and wrist for extended PC fixing sessions. Plus this is gadgets and gear, I cant really recommend a cheap product can i?
seriousley though, when they start to randomly crash there are a number of things it could be. It could well be the RAM, it could also be the hard drive. It could be a problem with the cooling in the case making something overheat.
If its 4 years old I would recommend you try to re install Windows, if that doesnt work save yourself some grief and dump it. My last computer started randomly crashing so I canged the power supply, hard drive, processor, motherboard, ram, graphics card, NIC and added two extra case fans and it still kept crashing. My answer was to buy a laptop and dump the desktop. I dont play high performance games anymore so a laptop is fine, got a basic business model for £500 when it starts to crash it will meet the bin and I'll get another.
Another tip - back up all your imporant data onto a USB hard drive while the computer still works. Oh yeah, and dont be suckered into a 'home user' laptop that seems like it has amazing features for a really low price, you get what you pay for and you will get a much more stable machine if you look at a business range (assuming you dont want blazing fast graphics.)