aggressive mindset

Well with phone calls there isn't much you can do other than resort to returning the calls with threats yourself (then you become equally at fault in the eyes of the law). Or call the Cops and tell them you are being harrassed and by whom. I presume you know this person but are unsure of how to engage them? correct?

Well, they don't really want to engage you only intimidate you verbally. If they wanted a piece of you, they'd just find you and go for it. So, if anyone in your battle on the phone is a "p**sy" it's the caller who's harrassing you. Call the Police with confidence knowing you are doing what the law requires and that your enemy is really no enemy but a childish punk. Good luck....R
 
starlight said:
So I have been taking some Sayoc Kali classes and it's really amazing how much it has helped me and changed my mindset away from victim training. But I was wondering, what's an aggressive/offensive way to deal with someone calling leaving two dozen messages on your answering machine? It seems like they are more in control because the calls are unwanted, and I'm at a loss as to how to turn that around but I know there has to be something. Thoughts?
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Use your index-finger-fu to call the phone company, and ask them the process to lodge a complaint. If the calls are threatening, they'll probably notify the police, or have you do it.
 
Get call blocker.

If it is a debt, pay the debt. If it is something else, what is it about & how can you 'resolve' it?

BTW, an "agressive" mindset is not as preferable as a calm & collected mindset IMO. The proverbial 'mind like a still pond'. Think. Act. But do not let yourself be goaded into "reacting" & this way YOU remain in control.

You cannot control what others do, you can only control you. So why allow others to dictate how or whether you respond at all?

Just my opinion. Good luck.
 
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