Alzheimers just took my mother-in-law

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Man, that is one insidious disease!!! It started more than 15 years ago with little things and progressively got worse. Once she was diagnosed those "little" things made some sense. This is a woman who worked in The Pentagon during WWII. She was the assistant to a general in charge of traffic and war materiel shipments. When my wife and I first met and married she was unsure about me and eventually came about and actually treated me better than my own mother. (I came from an abusive home-alcoholic parents who had been abused by their families). We gave her two grandsons who she treated as if they were more important than life itself. (in contrast to my mother who barely acknowledged they were there). They grew up knowing Gramma Kitty (she had a cat) as they called her would always be there for them. She was at their beck and call and would take vacations from work to spend time with them. She was eventually forced into retirement. She worked as a secretary to the county school superintendent. He was frustrated by her inability to learn anything and her forgetfulness. It went down hill from there. I watched her go from a sweet hardworking loving woman to just a shell of a person with nothing left of her mind while the body slowly deteriorated. The past couple of years were hard on my wife and her sisters (their dad has been dead for over 25 years). If any of you have family with this disease treasure your time with them and spend as much of it as you can. You won't regret it. I apologize for unloading here, but since I spend more time on the Busse forum here than any others I thought I'd feel more comfortable talking to you all. Thanks for listening.

Jarv
 
Jarv, I too have seen the onslaught this disease takes. A very loved aunt.

My prayers go with you and your family.

Gad bless.
 
Jarv, sorry to hear about your loss. Our prayers are with you and your family...
 
Anyone whose family has been touched by this disease understands your words.

Take care.
 
You have my prayers and condolences.

This happened with my x's mother, when she retired she just spiraled down, healthy as a horse, but the dementia had taken everything that was her. The time it took for for her health to deteriorate was one of the most painful experience ever.
 
I feel your pain and I'm sorry for anybody that has been through this. I have a grandmother who very closely mimics your description... She is one of my strongest positive influences, but has lost most of her mind and memory...:(
I will send prayers towards her, you, and your family.

J
 
you will be in my thoughts. this disease has started to affect my grandfather. it is so painful to watch him lose his abilities.
 
AD is the most common neurodegenerative disease by far. With people living longer, there will soon not be a single family in the US untouched by the disease.

My condolences to you and your family.
 
I lost my dad about 6 years ago. 4 years of progressive hell for my mom and my brothers and sister. Horrible disease that can be just as hard on the loved ones as the patient.
 
Our thoughts and prayers to you and yours.

My grandmother suffered the last of her life with it, and it bit seeing a once vibrant and intelligent woman reduced down they way she was.

May time, friends, and loved ones help lessen your pain.:cool:
 
Sorry to hear about your loss, puukko. Your family is in our prayers.
 
So sorry to hear of your loss. My mom suffered with Alzheimer's for 10 years before slipping out into eternity. I too share the frustration of watching a lady who was so vibrant, alive, and wonderful slowly turn into the non-responsive, totally confused bit of humanity that Alzheimer's eventually creates. Hopefully, with all the concentrated efforts now taking place, very soon a cure and/or preventive measure will be found.

You are in our thoughts and prayers!
 
Sorry to hear that bro. I do hope science finds a cure for this. My great grandma died of this as well. Prayers headed your way. :)
 
I always hate it when families suffer loss like this, and I am very sorry for yours. She, and all that is good in her, will be missed greatly. Don't let her be forgotten. My prayers to you and yours.
 
I am sorry for your loss, that disease is one of the hardest I have ever encountered for the family. My family understands your loss. May God bless you and yours to get through this period of time.
 
Man, that is one insidious disease!!! It started more than 15 years ago with little things and progressively got worse. Once she was diagnosed those "little" things made some sense. This is a woman who worked in The Pentagon during WWII. She was the assistant to a general in charge of traffic and war materiel shipments. When my wife and I first met and married she was unsure about me and eventually came about and actually treated me better than my own mother. (I came from an abusive home-alcoholic parents who had been abused by their families). We gave her two grandsons who she treated as if they were more important than life itself. (in contrast to my mother who barely acknowledged they were there). They grew up knowing Gramma Kitty (she had a cat) as they called her would always be there for them. She was at their beck and call and would take vacations from work to spend time with them. She was eventually forced into retirement. She worked as a secretary to the county school superintendent. He was frustrated by her inability to learn anything and her forgetfulness. It went down hill from there. I watched her go from a sweet hardworking loving woman to just a shell of a person with nothing left of her mind while the body slowly deteriorated. The past couple of years were hard on my wife and her sisters (their dad has been dead for over 25 years). If any of you have family with this disease treasure your time with them and spend as much of it as you can. You won't regret it. I apologize for unloading here, but since I spend more time on the Busse forum here than any others I thought I'd feel more comfortable talking to you all. Thanks for listening.

Jarv

My prayers to you and your family puuko. My wife's grandmother has got it as well and she gets worse on a weekely basis it seems. A mere 6 months ago it was forgetting something here or there now she asks the same questions over and over every couple of minutes. She doesn't remember where she lives. Doesn't recall that her sisters are dead. That sort of stuff. My wife's mom is taking care of her and it is hard on her and it is only going to get worse. She's only 80, so she could easily go another 10 years physically, unless something really bad happens.
 
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