Of course you’re missing out. The real question is, is that a big deal?
Let’s represent your disposable income as “X”. Let’s further suppose that you have 4 different hobbies: knives, guns, fast cars and loose women.
If you divide X equally between the 4, each hobby gets 1/4 of it. If, in a moment of weakness, you spend 1/2X on loose women, the other three hobbies have to divide the remaining half, or 1/6X each.
If you spend the entire X on fast cars, you won’t be shooting, buying knives, or fornicating much until your next X comes along.
This example is vastly simplified (especially the part about loose women). Most males of my generation learned all this in high school, I’m not telling you anything new.
Two useful things to know:
1) different hobbies bring you different levels of enjoyment at different times - you’ll go through stages. Manage them for maximum personal enjoyment.
2) the same amount of X will take you farther in some hobbies than others. Additional spending is not always proportional to enjoyment - find the “sweet spot” in each hobby to maximize your overall return on investment. (Hint: it’s different for every person.)
Hopefully you can avoid falling below some minimum level of function in each category, avoiding the necessity to open mail with your car key or ride a Greyhound bus to Pittsburgh and back. Ideally, you’d maintain your knives reasonably sharp, your guns reasonably accurate, enough gas money to get where you need to go, and your woman (or women) below a punitive level of extravagance.
But you’ll always be missing out on something, there’s just not enough X to buy it all. The trick is, make sure what you’re missing out on is stuff you don’t care about.
Life is a balancing act. Sometimes you balance it pretty well, other times it can all crash to the ground in an instant. No guarantees, just smart and foolish choices.
Best of luck to you.
Parker