raghorn said:
Or as my granny used to say, you can lead a horse to water but you gotta be awful big and strong to drown him.
heh....my father always told me you can lead a horse to water, but can't lift it's tail up and suck it up through thier ass for 'em...
Hell, I got a couple renters in my mother in law apartment like that. We brought her in cause she used to babysit for us and wound up divorced and homeless. Let her stay there a couple months for free, bought her groceries, diapers for the kids, fixed a car up for her, etc. So she could get back up on her feet. As soon as we got her back on her feet (in a rather wobbly stance) she hooks up with another dirtbag boyfriend, they both start drinking nightly, both wind up with DWI's....both wake me up at three in the morning falling and puking all over themselves....a real class act.

It's like she's just looking as hard as she can for the next bad situation to dive into and then complain about. Kinda sad, cause she is a sweet natured, kind hearted person, and she's got an IQ higher than mine and my wife's put together. (The boyfriend might be good for sharkbait?)
At least my wife and I know in our hearts we did the right thing, and then were smart enough to emotionally distance ourselves from the situation. as long as they pay rent and obey the basic rules, they can stay. if they don't they are evicted. Once they do move on, we won't be bothering to send Christmas cards.