Wow I stop by here in a long time and find one of my old threads up! Well, I have been wearing the silhouettes for several months now without the reflective coating, and I can say I am happy with the package. The glasses are very light (they weigh just a few grams). Reflections don't seem to bother me, except maybe when driving at night.
One thing I can say about getting frameless glasses is to have them done at the best place you can. The people who are putting in your lenses are essentially building the frame. I got mine done at D.O.C. eyewear in a mall, and there are some imperfections. I don't think that they would bug most people but they are kind of annoying. There is a tiny bit of glue residue around the mounting plates, the vertical axis of the two lenses is a bit off, and apparently the lense index is not the highest, since both eyes are -3.00 but the lenses look kind of thick. If I could go back I probably would have had the glasses done by a professional company, like sending it to Carl Zeiss or something. So if you get frameless, get them done right.
-Henry