Lower the handle slightly at the start.
Many spydercos have a full curve to the blade, essentially its like a ulu blade in that the whole cutting edge is a belly. Point of contact is very small when sharpening this type of edge and if you sharpen it like a blade that is usually straight through this area you will get the results you are getting.
Lets see if I can explain my bowl trick...... Take a soup bowl and turn it upside down on a flat surface. Place your hands all fingers together on either side of the bowl. Lift the bowl on its rim 45 degrees so that just one point of the rim is contacting the surface. Holding the angle roll the bowl around on it rim holding the X and Y axis the at the same point throughout.
The forward section of the bowl that touching when the raised end is facing you will be exactly like sharpening a knife with lots of belly. If you follow the rim 180 degrees from right too left it would be the exact motion of sharpening a ulu blade. If you started at 75 degrees to the choil side and move to 180 that would be like sharpening your spidie. If you start at 90 and move to 180 that would be like most knives that are straight from choil to belly.
Make an sense????