Off Topic Been incommunicado for a while.

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Early Saturday May 29 I got out of bed to go urinate. Couple of seconds later I had fallen on my right side on the floor between the cedar chest and the dresser hoping not but knowing that I had broken a hip. As long as full body weight was on that leg and hip the pain was somewhat abated but any effort to change positions was excruciating. Worst of all I couldn't rouse Kathy by yelling. I still had to pee, badly. My dirty underwear hamper was in arms reach so I turned it over, dragged the contents out into a pile on the floor and used that instead of the carpet. It took about 30 minutes to stir Kathy to call 911. (She is totally deaf in one ear and habitually sleeps with her good ear to the pillow.)

EMT's arrived to find a 6'8" man in a tight spot in a bedroom with a door at an odd angle to a narrow hallway, with no way to get a gurney anywhere close. Out comes a canvas sling. I screamed when they rolled me onto the sling. I screamed louder as they dragged me out of the bedroom, around the tight corner and down the hall into the den where gurney was waiting. My last scream was for the transfer to the gurney, although the ambulance ride was terrible, too.

Broken femur, up close to the hip socket. Hey, if you've got to break something why not the biggest bone in your body? Surgery to install a nail (surgeon's terminology) on Monday morning. After 21 days of physical and occupational therapy in a nursing home/rehab facility with barely edible food, noisy hallways at night, but some excellent, dedicated rehab people, I am back home, walking with pain on a walker and having very painfully climbed the 11 stairsteps from the garage into the house with the able help of my son and grandson. Thank God for family. So I am a home bound prisoner with home rehab visits until further notice. Kathy has been absolutely great throughout all this. Right now my primary goal is to be able to leave the house by July 11 for some sort of commemoration of our 50th anniversary, even if only to limp to a restaurant on my walker and eat out.

Life is good, God is good, even if life hurts a lot sometime.
 
Holy hell man! What an ordeal but good to see the perseverance and goal setting! Busting a femur I have heard is about the absolute worst break possible. At 6/8 you got that right being a big bone- damn!
Grats on that Golden milestone!
Best wishes big guy! ~ wife get you one of those little bells yet? 😂
I had some surgery a few weeks back and was laid up with the wife tending to me (I even gave her a tip one day, I thought it was funny) ~At 1 point, while sedated, I suggested "Ya know, maybe one of them bells would come in handy for when I need something?" ... I thought it was good for a laugh.....apparently I'm the only one who got it 😁
 
Life can be rough even when things are going "good" ... when bad stuff happens it stinks ... thanks for the update and positive mindset!
 
Glad you are healing!!!!

Do you know why you fell?
I've heard various views as to what is going on.... Usually getting up to pee, from sleeping..... I hope All is good.
 
Glad to hear your healing! Here’s hoping for a speedy full recovery.
 
Sounds like a terrible ordeal. Celebrating your 50th anniversary is an incredible goal to work towards, hope you are able to go out and enjoy it. Hang in there sir!
 
I'm so glad to hear that you are on the mend and were able to improvise a suitable urinal. I visited with my wife's grandma today and she was complaining of her left hip "nail" hurting her (from a fall 3 1/2 years ago) after a trip to Florida. They should have made them out of INFI. ;)
 
Best wishes for a speedy recovery Mike. Sucks to get old doesn't it ? Of course,, it's still better than the alternative. ;)
 
Shit happens brother. It's been an interesting year. Drink to a good recovery for you.
 
wow sorry to hear Brother, Glad you are on the mend.
Nancy and I will say prayers for your fast recovery.
 
Really sorry to hear about your ordeal. Hope you have a full and speedy recovery. Congrats on the big 50th coming up and hoping you make it to that Special Dinner. You will be in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless,
Surfsidemel
 
Well crap, Mike. Take care of yourself and here is to a speedy recovery.
 
Here’s hoping you’re up and around soon and feeling a spring in your step before you know it.
 
Really sorry to here this Brother. Glad U'r home and on the mend now cause I can relate.
 
I hope you get better, My dad was a little older than you when he died last year. I really miss him and am wishing I could of gotten to play one last game of chess with him as that was one of his favorite things to do.
 
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