What angle are you using? Benchmades are typically ground at a wide angle that gives a thick edge that doesn't perform very well, but doesn't damage very easily. Spyderco knives have a much finer edge.
If you haven't reprofiled the edge on the benchmades to an angle closer to what you sharpen your spyderco knives at, they won't perform very well for you at most cutting chores. The thick edge creates a lot of drag right behind the cutting edge and makes the knife seem dull. Its kind of like a splitting wedge.
If you have reprofiled the edge on the benchmades to a finer angle, and they aren't holding an edge well, you may try and drop the angle a few degrees to give you a slightly thicker edge(but not as thick as the factory bevels). benchmade knives are hardened to a higher RC than spydercos. If you put a really fine edge on them, and try to cut something fairly hard, the edge may chip or roll as you cut. The high Rc makes them more wear resistant, but less resistant to stress.
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