Big Request for Smoke and Prayers

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My family needs all the smoke and prayers we can get.

My mother, who is an emphysema sufferer, has been temporarily in a nursing home for rehab to ween her off a respirator. She was brought to the hospital on Saturday suffering from accute pneumonia. Emergency took care of her and sent her up to a monitoring wing in the hospital (a not-quite-ICU). She's hooked up to all sorts of monitors. After being there a long time I left to get something to eat...

I get a call from her doctor saying that my mother had died.

I get a call from the doctor 5 minutes later saying that the team at the hospital got a pulse, he doesn't know exactly what happened, but he's running down to the hospital immediately.

I meet him there and he says that someone screwed up somewhere and he thinks she flatlined for at least 5 minutes before someone noticed and initiated resuscitation. She definitely has significant brain damage and they're moving her to the ICU. A neurologist will be there the next morning (Sunday) to do an assessment.

No show on the neurologist on Sunday. Finally she decides to show up on Monday. Initial CAT scan didn't show anything but she says that this is typical for damage from hypoxyia. Another CAT scan yesterday shows nothing, again somewhat typical. I'm waiting to hear back the results of the EEG today. But her kidneys are failing and I have to make a decision sooner or later whether to go ahead with dialysis, and it's almost 72 hours that she's been unconscious, which isn't good, there's only pain reflex on her right side, and she isn't initiating breathing on her own.

So pretty much there's only two types of news at this point: very bad, and worse. I'm praying, but I'm not sure what kind of outcome to pray for.
 
Thoughts, Prayers and best wishes sent from down south.......
 
Prayers for you all.

Been there and have had to make very hard decisions. Hope yours comes out better than mine did.
 
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Prayers for a good outcome and for strength for you in the decisions you have to make.

I don't know if this will help but it won't hurt. Sit with her and talk to her and hold her hand. Machines tell us a lot but not everything, If she's still there, she may be able to let you know.
 
Hang in there!! Payers and positive thoughts sent your way. Also I fully agree with Esav!!

Shawn
 
Praying for strength and wisdom if you should have to make the decision.

My dad and his siblings had to do that for his father. It was very difficult although they had discussed it ahead of time so it was just getting through the paperwork.
 
I wish you well, and your mom peace.

Esav's advice, even if no response, will go a long way for the both of you.

Kindly,

Coop
 
Prayers for a good outcome and for strength for you in the decisions you have to make.

I don't know if this will help but it won't hurt. Sit with her and talk to her and hold her hand. Machines tell us a lot but not everything, If she's still there, she may be able to let you know.

Thanks Esav. I took your advice and did that last night when I sat there with her. It really did help.

Thanks everyone. Sorry, not very talkative.
 
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