Birthday reflections

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It's been a good day.

First, its been great being on the receiveing end of all your well wishes. I want to give all of you a real heartfelt thank you.

Karen took me for lunch at my cousins place where I was treated to a out of this world briskett lunch. It was a little embarrasing when our waitress got the whole place to sing happy birthday to me, but I lived through it.:o

But the walk in the woods was the high point of the day. I took some knives for an outing. When I got up this morning I was in a reflective mood, and I thought alot about this aging thing, and about those who came before me. I'm not sure just why, but I put a few of the old knives in my pockets, knowing I was going to be out in nature.

It was afternon when Karen and I set out on a little hike in Black Hill Regional Park. It was a beautifull clear day with a blue sky, but cold in the high 30's with a stiff wind. The dense hardwood forest gave us good protection from the wind, and it was nice to hear the rushing of it in the tree tops. We hiked along the trail that dipped up and down in the hilly wooded terrain, and once in a while I would slip a hand in a pocket and feel the time worn smooth stag, or in another pocket the old time smoothed jigged bone. It was only Karen, me, and Pearl the wonder corgi, but in a strange sense I could feel dad and grandad. As I've aged I think more of them, and am very gratefull for having them as an influence in my life. When I got up this morning I looked at my face in the bathroom mirror, and I could see my dad looking back. Genes are a powerfull thing, theres no doubting that. Looking back over the last decade or two, I realize I've been acting more and more like dad. I now appretiate his practical approach to life. His low profile attitude.

We came to a small foot bridge over a creek that we've named Pearl's Crossing, because of Pearl's love of wading in the water. Funny as it is, a Cardigan Welsh Corgi was bread for hearding sheep and cattle, but they love water. Everytime we come to a creek Pearl loves to wad in up to her belly, but with her short legs thats not too deep. But its something in her instinct, even on a 30 something degree day. While she was enjoying the water and Karen was glassing the bare trees with her binoculars for owls, I picked up a stick to whittle a few curls. It was an oak branch, and the old carbon Hen and Rooster sliced a tight curl of wood like the oak was butter. For the zillionth time it occured to me our fathers and grandfathers knew how to pick out good equiptment. I guess they learned from their fathers. Not big, nor flashy, but effective at it's intended task.

Pearl finished with her wading so we moved on, and I thought about the heritage we leave our next generation. I wondered how many fathers these days take the time to go out on the back porch with their sons and teach them what a good pocket knife is, and how to use it safely? Or pick out that first airgun that will pave the way for the first .22 rifle under the tree. I feel a bit sad that there is a whole generation of kids growing up that have a father who does not hunt nor shoot nor fish nor camp. Kids have an instict for such things just as Pearl has a instinct for wading in the water or herding sheep at the Cardigan Corgi club meets. My nieghborhood has a play area with swings and jungle gym, but I see so many of the kids make for the woods.

I was taking Pearl for a walk not long ago, and I came across some young kids trying to make a fort. Now I know this an ancient thing for kids to do, we did it when I was young back in the iron age. But these kids had no idea how to go about it. I told Pearl to go chase some squirrels and I showed the kids how to gather some deadwood laying about that was at least as long as they were tall. We put one of them in a fork of a tree about 4 feet up, and made walls out of the rest. Then I had them gather up armloads of leaves and make a debris hut. They thought that was neet and as heck. Espcially the part where it was hard to see from a ways off. Kids and woods go together as well as kids and pocket knives.

I though about all this tonight at home when the family came over, and Karen made hot cider liberally spiked with Captain Morgans Spiced rum. It was a pleasent toddy to get buzzed on. And I realized how fortunate I have been in having had the chance to mentor two more generations in the things we hold dear on this folksy forum. My grandson supervised me when I rubbed down the old blades with a little mineral oil before putting them away. Being out in the cold and then comming inside, sometimes you get condensation on the steel. Ryan made sure I did a good job, and I think it was a good thing. He was the more sober of us.

Good night all, and again thank you for your well wishes.
 
Catching the moment.
Feeling the past propel you forward

Glad you had a special day
Another good memory
 
I wondered how many fathers these days take the time to go out on the back porch with their sons and teach them what a good pocket knife is, and how to use it safely? Or pick out that first airgun that will pave the way for the first .22 rifle under the tree. I feel a bit sad that there is a whole generation of kids growing up that have a father who does not hunt nor shoot nor fish nor camp.

Like all of us here, jackknife, I can't say enough nice things about your posts. I'm personally going to do my best with my two (soon to be three) kids to teach them these things, and to open their eyes to things other than today's pathetic TV- and video-game culture. And I would hope the other dads here on the folksy forum will too.

My two, 4 and 2 years old, already spend a lot of time hiking in nature with my wife and I and see me working with my pocketknife all the time. I've even let my 4-year-old whittle a bit on a stick under very close supervision. You should have seen the look on her little face. :D But please don't tell my wife! ;)
 
Jackknife....you are one cool cat....My son is currently 18 mos. old I take him out with me every chance I get....I look forward to spending lots of time outdoors with him, and any others that happen to grace my life with thier presence. I'm in the process of switching careers (becoming a teacher) one of the major reasons is that I'll have entire summers to spend with him in the woods (maybe one day hike the A.T.)....with my luck however he'll hate the woods and love video games.....I had to buy my 7 year old (boyscout) nephew a christmas present and to my delight his mom recomeded a pocket knife of some sort...we are a huge family and set a monetary limit per person...(also helps keep things humble and simple. I got him a vic camper, as it was my first real pocket knife. the next day I took him out in the Sis's back 40 showed him how to use the saw, make fuzz sticks and than we lit a small fire..I could tell by his face he was having a blast, and the whole thing was one of the best parts of my own christmas....Thanks for everything jackknife, and most importantly thanks for being you..your personal crayon adds a distinct a rich color to the sillohuette of this forum and is a big part of what keeps me coming back...cheers and happy belated.
 
Jackknife thanks for the stories and some great ideas/reminders of thinks we with young children can look forward to doing.

Already, I can see the devlish look on my 3 year old's face when he gets to hold one of the knives something between "some day" and/or "oh the things I could do". When he has a good week at school and is a good listener at home - we reward him with a "camp night" - sleeping bags and stories by flashlight. We got our 1 year a sleeping bag for the holidays so that she'll be ready to join in the fun as well.

Thanks again and happy belated birthday.
 
I am going to build a fort with my boys! Thanks Jackknife, I forgot how much fun that was.
 
I just felt good over Christmas when my 24 year old step-son, who was starting 8th grade when I came along, jumped right in, pulling out the Case yellow-handled pen knife I'd given him for a birthday present a few years ago and went to cutting things for people. Then he pulled the Autumn bone Russlock I had traded him one time out of his other pocket. Made me feel pretty darn good to see that.

I still have to take him to the range sometime soon. He was amazed when I said I would saying, "Really! You mean it!" I took his older sister when she was in from VA for the holiday. She reminded me I'd promised to take her the next time she was in. I have a pic on my phone of her holding my full size 1911 and standing by her target. She and her mother shot that and the compact, both in .45 ACP and my Ruger Security Six with .38 Special. Oh, and an old Charter Arms Bulldog in .44 Special. I was proud of them both. No whining, no cringing, just firing and reloading for themselves.

We may not have spent an extensive amount of time in the woods or with me teaching them the intimate details of the outdoor life, but it felt really good that we have bonded so well and that they have listened to and at times emulated me. The three steps (including Asa the now 17 and very tall autistic) are as much my kids as my own son is. I just wish I could get them all together sometime.

Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread. I've just been doing some reflecting of my own lately. Us folksy ol' farts do that now and then.

On Christmas Eve day I actually had a lady at work enthusiastically tell me she hoped I got everything I wanted this Christmas. I thought about it for just a moment and replied that I was actually pretty content. Sure, there are things I want and certainly those times of near famine along with the feasts. But, I have a great wife, good home life, a warm, loving dog, good kids I'm proud of, and other things I'm quite thankful for. And, I also have some people, places, and memories worth savoring now and again. Maybe not people and experiences on the par with many of Jackknife's. But, I've been a few places, done a few things, and even having to learn a lot on my own, I've learned a few things that are important to me.

Best to all of you and when you stop for your own reflections, may they be filled with much good. Let the bad serve as reminders of how good, the good is.
 
I just felt good over Christmas when my 24 year old step-son, who was starting 8th grade when I came along, jumped right in, pulling out the Case yellow-handled pen knife I'd given him for a birthday present a few years ago and went to cutting things for people. Then he pulled the Autumn bone Russlock I had traded him one time out of his other pocket. Made me feel pretty darn good to see that.

I still have to take him to the range sometime soon. He was amazed when I said I would saying, "Really! You mean it!" I took his older sister when she was in from VA for the holiday. She reminded me I'd promised to take her the next time she was in. I have a pic on my phone of her holding my full size 1911 and standing by her target. She and her mother shot that and the compact, both in .45 ACP and my Ruger Security Six with .38 Special. Oh, and an old Charter Arms Bulldog in .44 Special. I was proud of them both. No whining, no cringing, just firing and reloading for themselves.

We may not have spent an extensive amount of time in the woods or with me teaching them the intimate details of the outdoor life, but it felt really good that we have bonded so well and that they have listened to and at times emulated me. The three steps (including Asa the now 17 and very tall autistic) are as much my kids as my own son is. I just wish I could get them all together sometime.

Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread. I've just been doing some reflecting of my own lately. Us folksy ol' farts do that now and then.

On Christmas Eve day I actually had a lady at work enthusiastically tell me she hoped I got everything I wanted this Christmas. I thought about it for just a moment and replied that I was actually pretty content. Sure, there are things I want and certainly those times of near famine along with the feasts. But, I have a great wife, good home life, a warm, loving dog, good kids I'm proud of, and other things I'm quite thankful for. And, I also have some people, places, and memories worth savoring now and again. Maybe not people and experiences on the par with many of Jackknife's. But, I've been a few places, done a few things, and even having to learn a lot on my own, I've learned a few things that are important to me.

Best to all of you and when you stop for your own reflections, may they be filled with much good. Let the bad serve as reminders of how good, the good is.

Thanx Amos!.

I needed this to remind me of my own life and how so precious it all is.. Thanks God!!.. :cool:
 
My son is currently 18 mos. old I take him out with me every chance I get....I look forward to spending lots of time outdoors with him, and any others that happen to grace my life with thier presence. I'm in the process of switching careers (becoming a teacher) one of the major reasons is that I'll have entire summers to spend with him in the woods

My girl is nearly two and loves to go outside with me any chance she gets. She has a toy SAK which she calls a "fixit." I hope she hangs on to that enthusiasm for the outdoors as she gets older. I'll sure be doing my part.

Not to hijack, but Riley, what sort of teacher are you becoming? I'm a high school Latin teacher (talk about "traditional").
 
Sorry, didn't mean to hijack the thread. I've just been doing some reflecting of my own lately. Us folksy ol' farts do that now and then.


Hey Amos, didn't they tell ya that we're supposed to do that when we get old and folksy?

All kidding aside, darn good post, Amos. Maaybe we all should do a little reflecting on our birthdays. If we don't like something we have a whole year to do something about it!
 
I never post because I am so bad at typing but thanks for bringing back some memerories for me of "paw-paw"

R.J.
 
I never post because I am so bad at typing but thanks for bringing back some memerories for me of "paw-paw"

R.J.

Aw heck Roger, I'm so bad AND slow at typing it takes me 15 minutes to make a one paragraph post. Come on and tell us about your "paw-paw". We'll wait for ya!:D:thumbup:
 
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