Not all black coatings are the same. Some are paint, some are powder/ epoxy, others are metal.
Titanium nitride is an extremely hard coating of metal alloy. How hard? Good knife blades measure around 57-60 Rockwell Hardness. Titanium nitride measures 85 Rockwell Hardness.
Can it be scratched? Anything can. Can it be scratched as easily a "teflon" or "powdercoat" finish? No.
Titanium nitride isn't going to come off in bits and chunks to clog your sharpening stones, either. Very little of the Ti finish will be in contact with the stone, anyway. The entire edge being sharpened isn't coated with titanium. The only place where the Ti finish will contact the stone is the exact border where the top of the cutting edge meets the coated blade surface. That's an area measured in thousandths of an inch.
You shouldn't have any problem during normal sharpening.