I work in microbiology and i can vouch that bleach is the only cheap and readily available household chemical that will kill pretty much everything (non diluted, household grade). I'm not sure what effect it will have on the wood though, taking that risk is up to you, maybe try it on a spot first... I'm honestly not sure about the antifreeze, sounds more like a wives tale -- spores can be surprisingly resistant.
That being said, I wouldn't worry too much, the "black mold" is merely superficial at this point and shouldn't erode away the innards of your stump anytime soon. You could probably just scrub it off with some mild detergent and put the log in a dry environment that inhibits mold growth. De-barking makes sense as it will speed drying.