I literally made a thread about this 3 days after getting the knife. I had to use a prybar just to unlock it many times, and I was UPSET.
I eat my own words with all the worries I had because it turned out that the knife just really REALLY needed to be worn in.
It's been.... 4-6 weeks since I got my 0561 and I've been flipping it daily while watching something on the computer, etc w/e you're into.
I did add pencil led to the blade tang a few days and that helped only a little, now I've just oiled it with tuf-glide and cleaned the lock surfaces and it couldn't be smoother (still a little tough to close one-handed but it will get there). I firmly believe to get your knife working nicely the blade tang just needs to get some serious grinding action against the lock over time.
Just relax, know it's okay, open it softly and open it hard. It will wear in if you play with it enough. When I disengage the lock I hold it in my left hand and then obviously close it with my right thumb, which I'm sure is what most do (just to be clear lol). When I first started working the blade to wear it in, even closing it as I just stated would leave my thumb raw and bloody depending on how hard/softly I opened up. I can confidently say I'm well past the prybar disengaging stage on mine, so I hope that makes you feel better.
Mike