Thanks so much everyone for your support, thoughts, prayers and smoke.
Dave is quite the trooper. He gets a little sad and down sometimes, but tries to stay hopeful. Same with Debbie. It's so hard being so close when all we can do is stand by and pray, offering to do things that don't really matter.
Dave seems to thrive on the company of others and he and Debbie both enjoy a nice meal out. So last weekend Bryan, my mom and I went to his favorite Italian place and Debbie and Dave had a chance to laugh and let go a bit.
This week there is Thanksgiving for them to look forward to. Bryan and I won't be here (we're going to his folks in Cincy) but there will be turkey and all the fixins at Mom's house. Hopefully, Dave will not decide to bring along his special "smashed sweet potatoes and banana casserole."
Basically, everything is in a holding pattern right now. The one area that has been repaired three times has usually shown signs of trouble after 3-4 months. Hopefully, by then, there will be a plan to move him on to a larger hospital, such as the Cleveland Clinic, where they will do some type of therapy that involves "ballooning" the artery and giving it a dose of radiation. That is, if the stents don't hold.
Seriously, he's such a great guy with a strong faith, and my sister is simply a beautiful person. It means a lot to them that you all have them in mind. (Yep, they know about the guys in the Cantina!)
About Molly, it's hard to know what to do... she is not doing well with taking her Pepcid AC in powder form, sprinkled in her food (otherwise, she is eating well). She does not need the trauma of forcing it down her throat at this point. If she doesn't take it, she will start vomiting again and if she does that, it will be time to say good-bye. It's a hard decision to make. For now, we'll just keep giving her her sub-Qs, feeding her her "tainted" dry food and brushing her and loving her.
Sometimes, there's only so much you can do....