I'm a CNC programmer and machinist by trade, a programmer would use your model in a CAD/CAM suite such as MasterCAM, SurfCAM, GibbsCAM, etc to apply digital tool paths to the geometry and then as Harbeer said post the tool paths through the post processor that is appropriate for your milling machine. The post processor converts the digital information to code the machine reads, the most popular being G&M code that is read by many machines which includes Fanuc, Haas, Tosnuc, etc controllers.
Since you admittedly don't have any experience programming or machining, you'd need to send the file to a shop to machine the scales. Though for a one off set of scales it could be rather expensive considering the pay rate of competent programmers and machinist (ask
Nathan the Machinist
about that), set-up cost and tooling. As long as the design is reasonable and you have the money I see no reason why it couldn't be done though, 3 axis contour milling isn't an uncommon process. I read that Aldo the new jersey steel baron is going to be offering scale machining services eventually, maybe reach out to them they might be able to help you with your project.