Challenged by a Ten-Year Old Girl...

Dr. Hannibal Lecter

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My Dear Friends,

I find it interesting that after discovering RAT Cutlery, this subforum is the one I have bookmarked to bring me into Bladeforums and is always the first forum I check upon my arrival here.

A quick story - we are currently prepping for a camping trip, and last night my daughter and I were discussing building fires (she has the honor of lighting the first campfire of the season, with a catch - she has to do it with a firesteel). We were playing around with a firesteel and jute twine and in short order had a small fire going in the fire ring in the backyard. She commented offhandedly that we could probably manage fairly well in the woods with minimal tools.

I was a bit surprised. Why, I don't know, but I somehow wasn't expecting it. Don't get me wrong - she isn't a typical kid. Amazingly intelligent (straight-A's and enrolled in the Gifted Program), but also very athletic. She is also very wise for such a young age.

At age three she began helping out in the kitchen under close supervision, and at age five she received her first Swiss Army Knife. Later that year she received a Spyderco Ladybug (pink, of course). Since then her knife collection has grown exponentially, and it is not unusual for me to see the pocket clip of a Spyderco Harpy or Lava protruding from her jeans pocket during the summer. She even has a custom fixed blade gifted her by a favorite "uncle", BigKahunaSix.

She has never cut herself, BTW, which is more than I can say for myself. :D

I mentioned to her the RAT Cutlery "survival challenge" - you, the forest, an Izula, and an Altoids tin full of whatever you can carry. Three days and two nights.

She is apparently quite convinced that she and I can do it. My wife, of course, thinks we're crazy, not that I blame her. :p

Before summer is out I will have to pick up a pink Izula (hey, she's still very much a girl) and see if she is still inclined to try it out. The rules will be simple - she builds her own shelter, starts her own fire, and forages for her own food. Of course Dad will still be close by should she freak out or encounter something she can't handle, but I have the feeling that having me close by as a safety net will likely encourage her to push herself harder. I know that our not being alone individually isn't adhering strictly to the formal rules, but I am more worried about developing her skill sets in a controlled environment than following the exact letter of the rules - the spirit will suffice for me.

When this happens I'll get pics and write a full report of the week-end!

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Hannibal
 
Amazing story, i truly believe that your 10 year old girl would beat a lot of survival Tactitrolls of the forums in the wilderness. Keep going, im waiting to see the pics.
 
I can't wait to see the results of this little trial.

Also, sounds like she would embarass most of the the contestants on the "survial" reality shows. You're a lucky man...it's good to be a proud papa.
 
Hopefully this isn't to off topic, but this thread makes me want to take a moment to congratulate Dr. HL and all the rest of you dads that are spending this kind of time with your daughters. Time well spent with Dad's early in life, can prevent a myriad of problems in evaluating the character of some "men" later on.

:thumbup: to you folks!
 
My Dear Friends,

Hopefully this isn't too off topic, but this thread makes me want to take a moment to congratulate Dr. HL and all the rest of you dads that are spending this kind of time with your daughters. Time well spent with Dads early in life, can prevent a myriad of problems in evaluating the character of some "men" later on.

No kidding there! Sure, I am 'Dad', but I am also her friend. There is nothing like the feeling of a child that is genuinely excited to see you when you get home, a child that truly wants your company and likes having you around.

My daughter already knows how to evaluate the characteristics of the guys she thinks are "cute" - even at age ten she values kindness, a sense of humour, consideration, intelligence, and loyalty. Ask her and she will tell you - her Daddy has never lied to her. She has 100% faith and confidence in me because I have never given her a reason not to.

Find time for your kids, my friends, while they still *want* to spend time with you. Soon enough their friends and activities will take priority (which is realistically as it should be) and you'll find you will be the one they don't have the time for - enjoy them now. Connect with them and be the one they run to when they have a problem. Be someone they can trust.

Be the parent to them you wish that you had when you were growing up.

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Hannibal
 
I'm REALLY interested in how this plays out. One of the coolest stories I've seen posted here in a while. It's a highlight of my day to see a kid take an interest in something like this. Please keep us posted!
 
Very very cool! Sounds like you got yourself a damn fine kid there. Sounds like she's got a great dad too. Keep us posted.
 
It's awesome that you spend that kind of time with her, and it's even more awesome that she's taking on a challenge like this.
 
It's great to hear about parents and kids together in the outdoors. We need way more of that. The time spent together is priceless.

Keep us posted.
 
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Sounds like you have a GREAT kid there, Doc. Congrats on your parenting! Keep us posted on her escapades.
 
What a fantastic post!:thumbup: You have a special girl there. Congratulations to Mom & Dad & your daughter! I look forward to future updates!
 
Sounds like you are raising quite a fine young lady, you can really read the pride in your post :)

Best of luck to her in the adventure, cannot wait to hear about it.
 
First thing I do not know dr. h.l.. so this is just a thought. I think one of the dealers on this forum should consider sending this girl a pink izula in exchange for pics from the camp for advertising purposes......win win for everyone. just a thought.
 
My nephews like to try this kind of thing out, but they never want to stay overnight. They always have to come back in and play their video games at night :( (I blame mom and dad for this... since the dad plays with them, and doesn't like the woods at all)

Oh well, let us know how it goes! :)
 
You must be very very proud.
And I am looking foreward to the pics ...

Mind you, very intelligent girls can be quite some handful when they hit puberty (or does puberty hit them?) - so enjoy the time as much as you can.

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