Changes in this forum and Les Robertson.

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Well, judging by the responses I have seen so far there is no need to wait until tomorrow to render my final decision regarding Les Robertson.

I have not contacted Les directly and there is no need to.

I gave a simple query to the advisory board, we set up several months ago. The question was simply "Should Les Robertson remain as moderator".

The position of Moderator is quite different here on the forums than in most other arenas. The moderator on most of our forums is regarded as an "In House" expert. Many of the questions posted to each forum are not necessarily addressed to any one moderator but if the question starts slipping down the forum without answer the moderator is expected to help pick up the slack and answer it. In the case of Les Robertson he answered many questions long before most moderators would. This is indeed indicative of his superior knowledge when it comes to custom knives.

However, (And this is a big However) what has happened here on too many occasions is that Les has taken, and more appropriately put, seized, various opportunities to enter into arguments directly with forum members and knife makers.

Regardless of whether his argument was based in fact or not, it is not appropriate for a moderator to enter into an argument with a member when it is clear he is arguing only for the sake of arguing. I enjoy a good argument but not when the material is shoved down my throat, in a condescending manner, with the classic "I am Right and You are Wrong attitude" which has been displayed here of late by Les Robertson, it just gets to be too much.

I have read many of the threads recently on this forum and if I was a member involved in an argument with Les the above is what I would feel.

There is a right way and a wrong way to argue a point and Les continuously chooses the wrong way. He may feel that he is attacked first on some occasions. I would venture to guess, and subsequently argue, that most of the attacks he feels are directed at him because of his previous statements and behavior regarding certain subject matter which he has a tendency to express himself in a not so kind and/or humorous manner.

Les retains a virtual plethora of information which is a value to our on-line community. His expertise in his field would be virtually impossible to replace. I however will not consider him a necessary evil, which is what was stated by an advisory board member. That is not my style. He is welcome to stay and add input to the forum. It is my decision, and that of the advisory board that he will however no longer remain, as Moderator, effective immediately.

This will also act as an official warning that regardless of who you are, what your background or expertise, I will not allow personal attacks from anyone on this forum, PERIOD!

I would like to apologize to all forum members on behalf of myself and all of the moderators here. This should not have been allowed to ever get to this point.

I would also like to apologize to Les Robertson. I should have understood at the time that I placed you on as moderator and saw the first signs of this that you may not be the man for the job. You are a tremendous resource and a valuable asset to our community. I do not want to loose you as a resource and nor do any of the members here. I just believe that you are not capable of moderating a group of people in a manner, which is conducive to objective overseeing. You can not remain objective as evidenced by your posts, your argumentative nature and your continued predilection for irrelevancy.

You are too much like myself in that you are quick to stand your ground. I have, over the last 2 years, learned that the Internet is a two edged sword. I actually had to dig out some old books I read from long ago and remember how to manage a large group of people. We have over 3,500 members here from damn near everywhere in the world. Each member with there own unique background, religion and political affiliation. To be able to place such a huge and diverse community together and have the few problems we do is truly a unique accomplishment. You must learn that others do not think like yourself and therefor they will not respond to your type of behavior in a manner, which you may like.

According to a member on the advisory boards, you are a Type A. Type A's are wonderful entrepreneurs and businessmen. They do not however make effective managers. That is not to say that you can not be trained to be an effective manager. I too have had to learn. Anyone, who remembers my posts over the last couple years, starting at Benchmade, can attest to that.

Les my suggestion to you is to go out and buy a few books and read them. In the past you have not responded to constructive criticism. Well now may be that time. You have the potential to do something great in your field and this is in no way meant to proclaim that you have not already contributed. What I am getting at here is that with some minor tweaking you can do great things with a great many more people.

You are much like me in that you are money motivated. Notice I did not say you are money hungry or whatever. You are willing to do the work necessary to attain the level of income you want. However should you ever wish to rise to the next level, you will find it much more difficult if you have burnt previous bridges getting there. Sometimes you need to go a little backwards to go forward. Many makers may not make what you think is a high quality knife today but who knows that very make could be the next Allen Elishewitz or whoever you currently like.

Sometimes it would be in your best interest to keep your opinions to yourself. This very post is my opinion on you. Maybe you will take this post apart and blast me with it. Maybe then I will think I should of kept this all to myself and just removed you as moderator without any explanation to you or the members here.

I would be willing to bet that based on your past you will take this in the wrong light and you will make some sort of post stating that you will never post here again. If you do, and you think this is some sort of agenda that we have to get rid of you, like you have stated before, then I guess we win. However the truth is I would like you to remain as a valued member and to offer your knowledge and expertise. Should you choose to move on I will obviously look at it that your ego has gotten in the way of logic.

Les, I lost over $1,000,000 (yes that is one million dollars) in the last two years in sales do to a decision made by Benchmade. I still post over on their site. I have asked them to let us host their forum here. I brought Allen Elishewitz to Benchmade. I host the AKTI forum here now and I still shake Les De Asis's hand each and every time I see him.

Although at the time I took the decision very personal I realize it was a business decision. Les and I traded some very heated emails over it but we understand each other. I hope you understand me and take this in the proper light.


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Best Regards,
Mike Turber
BladeForums Site Owner and Administrator
Do it! Do it right! Do it right NOW!
www.wowinc.com

 
I'am relatively new to the Forums. However
been actively involved in Knives, Customs and Tactical, et al for many years.
I would like to pose a question: Would'nt everyone's interest be better served if there is a suspention after a warning ?
It seems to me than rather than a acrmonious and truckulent exchange of egos, coupled w/ condescending diatribes everyone's best interest would be better served in this fashion. If the person continues after the warnings then that person has determined their own fate w/o all of the personality issues or egos. We all must honor and respect each other. We must learn this regardless of someone prostelitizing or
grandstanding or using political clout.
I'm just trying to point out the big picture to what our higher purpose should really be.
I'm not polorized by any side and I certainly know not everone likes me or cares for me, but I don't want that. I want to be respected. That's more important in the end.
I think Les is tremendous asset to everyone in this field. Have we given him a fair and honest chance ? Does he UNDERSTAND what your expectations are ? Were you comprehensive
and clear ? I have had discussions w/ him where we disagree on some issues. He has never demonstrated to me a lack of respect only difference in opinion. I honor that difference. I see it as a way for me to learn and say why does he think this way?
I do not take it so personally. Warriors
especially in today's civilized society instinctively must know or learn this. Remember, Anger leads to hate and hate leads to suffering. So far all I see when I read this is anger !!!
Just some food for thought.

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There is no possible victory in defense, The Sword is more important than the shield, And skill is more important than either, The final weapon is the brain. All else is supplemental."



[This message has been edited by Tamishigiri (edited 26 September 1999).]
 
Fact:
Mr Robertson does not play well with others.
Fact:
Mr Robertson knows the rules.
Fact:
Mr Robertson broke the rules.
Fact:
Mr Turber enforces the rules.
Life goes on.

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have a"knife"day
 
Tamashigiri,

Perhaps it is because you don't have a long history on this site that you may be unaware of certain things that have gone on in the past.

We've been through this soap opera before, and more than once, unfortunately.

As far as I am concerned, coming to these forums should be a source of pleasure in addition to the knowledge and other satisfaction one gains here.

I think Mike and Spark have done a very good job at fostering such an atmosphere since the inception of these boards. And for the most part, all "rules" have been equitably enforced.

No maker, buyer, dealer, engraver or other citizen of this online community needs to be abused or berated for whatever reason (at least without serious provocation)and unfortunately, such wasn't the case.

Les might be the most knowledgeable knife man in the world, but that doesn't change the fact that his people skills as a moderator are lacking. Mike has offered him the opportunity to remain within the community as a member, like most of us. He still has the opportunity to contribute.

I know that the issues of the past week have troubled better people than me since I have had the opportunity to discuss it with many of them.

I'd hate to think that some good people, makers or otherwise, would be reluctant to visit or post because they felt the atmosphere too daunting.

In any case, the die is cast, and for what it is worth, I applaud Mike, Spark and the board members (whoever they may be) for making their decision.

Blues

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Tamishigiri,

Thanks for your post, however, please do a bit of digging into the past of this forum. Les has been given nothing but chances, and unfortunately, after every time we give him a chance, and tell him what we expect of him, and tell him what we do not find acceptable, he does not make any changes and reverts back to the same behavior.

The whole reason we now have a Board staffed by BladeForums.com members in the first place is because we needed outside opinions on how Les was behaving months ago. Like Mike said, this is not the first time this sort of situation has arisen, and despite every attempt we make to work with Les, he is unwilling to follow the guidelines we set for everyone.

There are only so many chances you can give someone before you have to make a decision. By giving Les more chances, we probably reinforced his behavior, which is unfortunate. But, that's life.

This was not an easy call, which is why we left the final decision up to the Board members. Their decision was to remove him based on his behavior, and as such, we are following their judgement.

Les has forgotten more knowledge about custom knives than I'll ever know, but we need our moderators to practice moderation and to act in the interests of all of the members. Sometimes you just have to swallow your pride and sublimate your ego for the good of everyone else, it's part of building a welcoming community.

Spark

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Kevin Jon Schlossberg
SysOp and Administrator for BladeForums.com

Insert witty quip here
 
I agree that something needed to be done, it was getting ugly around here. I may have missed something a while back, who makes up the board?
 
The board is made up from members who volunteered to be on it, way back when we had the previous "issues". We made a public request for people to volunteer to help make decisions like this, and everyone who volunteered was added to a mailing list. This is the first time we've had to use it though.

Spark

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Kevin Jon Schlossberg
SysOp and Administrator for BladeForums.com

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You may well be right in some of the criticisms that you leveled at Les. But in doing so in such a public manner, you're as guilty of them as he. You'd be well advised to take your own advice, vis-a-vis reading some books to broaden your people skills.

My own considerable experience as a consumer with Les has been that he is extremely knowledgeable. Extremely. And at least 95% of the time, he is both right and impartial in making pronouncements regarding the custom knife world.

My strong suggestion to you is to create a new forum entitled "Les Robertson on Knives", with Les as the moderator. Let your membership benefit from his expertise, while at the same time understanding that his posts reflect his view of the world. That eliminates the problems you perceive with his efforts here without depriving those members who enjoy (if not always agree with) his take on the scene. If you don't we're poorer for it, and you stand smaller.

 
I usually mind my own business, but not this time.

Even if one individual starts a thread down the wrong path, those that take the bait are just as guilty for perpetuating the problem. I came to Bladeforums to share my enthusiasm for knives with others and learn a thing or two. I know this is an open forum, but a little self-policing is required. Think of the newbie that clicks in for the first time a reads one member arguing with another online. It would turn me off immediately. It is easy to hide behind the anonymity of a computer. So what if opinions vary; peoples tastes vary. I enjoy the customs, but many individuals on this forum couldn't give two hoots and have not even clicked into the custom forum. Our world (custom/hand made enthusiasts) is not that big. We don't solve world problems and if we disappeared life would go on. Being a collector - purveyor - maker or all three requires the responsibility of showing new collectors/purveyors/makers that this is a great place to be. Bring them in; don't scare them off. If you can't tell something to someone's face, keep it to yourself. Secondly, if you do not make your personal e-mail available for off-line discussion, keep it to yourself. Argue over politics or religion, not knives. It is not that big of a deal.

Bob

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jbravo,

Bravo!

Good idea actually. The problem however still remains that Les needs to understand we can not bash our own members. I would be happy to give him his own forum but I think I would be at least given him the green light to talk bad about anyone he wishes using our web site as his own personl pulpit.

This is what is going on right now on another site in which a moderator seems to actually control anything which goes on there. Is this what you really want?

I will bring it up to the board but only after I here more about you idea and if Les is even interested.

The world according to Les is not my idea of what this site is for. It is mainly and informational resource for all who attend here.

Maybe he should buy his own UBB license and he can have a forum on his site?

You also made mention that we should not publicly discuss issues which go on here. Well this is basically a public forum. If we had just removed him then you would all cry foul. So this time it is all out in the open. No hidden agenda can be claimed here.

In fact just to make certain you all know what we are dealing with here is the last email from Les and my reply to him. I am cerain I will get back lash for releasing the email but at this point I don't care as I have too much on my plate right now and I must move on. If I keep explaining myself and the decision of the board I will turn blue.

Hi Mike,

What took you so long. I got so tired of hearing those whiny *****'s I couldn't take it any more. I checked out of the net 3 days ago and hadn't been back.

You had better set some new ground rules for your moderator's. Example, if one of the forumites takes a shot at a moderator, then they should expect to be hit back. I watched you stand by and allow Tim Herman and TomW (by the way, why do you allow ****ing idiots who do not have a email to be able to post.???) to take shot's at your moderator's. Why is that Mike. You need to figure out who you are going to support and who you are not.

You will note, that I never changed back my signature to moderator. Even I knew I wouldn't be around that long. As I stated earlier, I was gone three days ago. I don't even know what happened, don't want to know, don't care. After the last round of bull****, I should have just stayed gone.

Mike, the free flow of information has to occur for the truth to come out. You will note in all my conversations where I challenged one of the forum members to step forward and accept my challenge. Not one ever did, ever. So either they are ****ing cowards, don't know what they are talking about or both.

When challenged, I don't quit, I don't stop and I don't back down. Only does the Internet provide the anonymity that many of these people crave. Hence the "screen names". Also, no information in their profile, no name, no job title, no nothing on too many. You should re look this policy. If people were held accountable for the things they say. As of now, the only one held accountable is me. Which is fine. As I have always held myself accountable for every word I say or write. You will not I never used a screen name, my profile is completely filled out and everyone in custom knives world wide knows where to find me. This cannot be said for many of your posters.

Just something to think about.

Best of luck with your new venture on the site.

Les

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Les,

What took me so long?
I was trying my best to be fair. I have a lot of respect for you sir. Unfortunately I don't think you do in regards to me or the members of BFC. Now your calling the BFC members whiny *****'s? I think most members want to be treated with a little respect. So now that you acknowledge their existence as whiny *****'s I now know my decision and that of the boards was the correct path to take.

With what path should I take? With what retort should I use to refute that which you hath cast unto me?

Les, you know very little of me, my past or my mental capacity. Wars fought with words hurt far more than with those of fists. I am 32 years of age. Maybe I can't teach old dogs new tricks but maybe the old fart can watch the young dog and be amazed.

There is an old saying. "Whatever is begun in anger ends in shame." Ben Franklin was a wise man. Maybe this day will bring more harm than good. I will let history be my guide, not my driver!

This web site is my venture into the unknown. I have tried many things before. "I haven't failed, I've found 10,000 ways that don't work".

You seem to offer me advice, yet you fail to take the same pill for which you have offered me.

Now you tell me I need to set ground rules for the moderators?
I think anyone with half a brain understands that a moderators position is just that, to moderate.

I turn you towards Merriam Webster.
Moderate:
1.) avoiding extremes of behavior or expression : observing reasonable limits
Moderator:
2.) one who presides over an assembly, meeting, or discussion: as a : the presiding officer of a Presbyterian governing body b : the nonpartisan presiding officer of a
town meeting c : the chairman of a discussion group

If you feel you where attacked by a member could you please point me to that thread so I can see what you are talking about. I have been attacked on numerous occasions. Have I ever attacked a member back? Ever called them an idiot much less a whiny *****? You show me that and I will give you the keys to my car and free web hosting for the rest of your life!

After reading your diatribe response to my email I guess I really did need to make this decision long ago. You take things so personal. Grow up dude.

As a moderator you are to be held to a higher standard than those who you feel are attacking you. You have not been directly attacked that I know of until after you directly or indirectly attacked someone else. Don't think I am right? Prove me wrong!

You seem to go out of your way to make statements about makers who you do not like and/or subsequently do not carry in your product mix. Am I wrong here also? Prove it!

You as a moderator should never attack a member. My rule for no personal attacks should go double for moderators.

You said "Mike, the free flow of information has to occur for the truth to come out". Hummmm. Les are crazy!?!?

You know damn well I could make BladeForums a pulpit of truth. I could shake the very grounds of the Internet with the "INSIDE" info I have on several key manufacturers. But do I? No I don't, I won't and never will unless of course I get a wild hair up my posterior.

I even have an online magazine coming out. I could make it the National Enquirer of Knife Knews! Do you have any clue as to how much inside info I have? INFI is just the fun one I know about. I your last email to me you made a point to keep reminding me about how much influence you have in the knife industry based on the amount of knives you have sold. Gimme a break man.. I have sold more knives $$$ wise and count wise in the last 5 years than you will ever sell in your entire life! So please don't come of as the almighty knife GOD to me based on your sales. Your knowledge in the custom knife industry speaks for itself and you could walk circles around me in that arena. But I would bet that at any given knife show I could walk up to every knifemakers table and they would great me with a smile. Can you say that?

OK Enough testosterone singing....

You also seem to make a point of not being around when things go bad. Your hit and run tactics remind me of a coward who want to be viewed as the victim in many circumstances. The first time I agreed that our timing was not appropriate and I brought you back. But since then you have developed a history of not being there when the fecal matter impacts upon the rotary oscillator.

You say when challenged you will not back down and you don't quit. What the hell does that prove? To me, and to most, it would prove your the idiot here and not the BFC members. There is a time to quit Les and since you obviously can not recognize that you may want to again take my advise and read some books. You must quit when either you are fighting a loosing battle or you are facing a Kobiyashi Maru (no win scenario, plus a cool Star Trek scene!).

You are wondering why you are being held accountable? Well maybe because part of your job as moderator is to help stop flame wars rather then either self igniting them or becoming a part of the fuel source.

I am not a fireman Les and as you can imagine I have a lot to do. I don't have the time or patience to fight fires anymore. I hired Spark to help me here and you in no uncertain terms said you do not want to deal with him. I said fine. Well of all the moderators I have ever had the only one I have ever had problems with is you.

Don't take this personally Les. Again as I have said all along I want you to remain a part of BFC. Should you choose not to we will loose a valuable member. You on the other hand will have chosen run from bunch of guys who look up to you as a valued source of information. Your choice and your call.

BTW If I see you at a show I will walk straight up to you and shake your hand and talk to your. Your action at that point is up to you. No hard feelings as this is just business.

Best luck to you as well my friend.

I leave you with several quotes for you to ponder as it seems to me that you believe Knowledge is the all powerful tool by which you can conquer your most vigilant of all enemies. Knowledge my friend is power but you must use it wisely.

"I am enough of an artist to draw freely upon my imagination. Imagination is more important than knowledge. Knowledge is
limited. Imagination encircles the world."
-- Albert Einstein

You will know. When you are calm, at peace. Passive. A Jedi uses the Force for knowledge and defense, never for attack.
-- Yoda!

"If A equals success, then the formula is: A = X+Y+Z. X is work. Y is play. Z is keep your mouth shut."
-- Albert Einstein

"Problems cannot be solved at the same level of awareness that created them."
--Albert Einstein

"Peace cannot be achieved through violence, it can only be attained through understanding."
--Albert Einstein

"Imagination is more important than knowledge. "
--Albert Einstein

"Do It, Do It Right, Do It Right Now!"
-- Mike Turber

My friend, I leave you in peace.
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Best Regards,
Mike Turber
BladeForums Site Owner and Administrator
Do it! Do it right! Do it right NOW!
www.wowinc.com
 
jbravo:
In response to your post I agree that Mr Robertson is"extremly knowledgeable" in the field of custom knives,but he is not Gods answer to the Custom Knife Forums either.
There are people wihtin the forums that are just as knowledgeable but not as vocal as Mr Robertson.
It suprises me that Mr Robertson spent a period of time in the military,as an officer I might, add and doesn't seem to posess much in the way of mental discipline.
This is an opinion of a person that deals with people everyday in the business community.Sometimes you have to bite your tongue.But you don't call them names because of a difference of opinion.
IMHO

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have a"knife"day
 
Well I knew this crap would happen, so let's just get it over with. Don't delete the thread, no personal attacks, and please no more personal E-mail. Let's just let it play out. The decision has been made. It should not be a surprise to anyone.

LD
 
No I won't delete it. I do not want to run this forum in a way which would seem to be behind the members backs. Therefor the email stands as it shows how the behind the scenes issues are handled when it concerns members.

The email is in no way a personal email. It is an official form of communication concerning official business.

Now if you do not respond to this thread it too will fade away.

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Best Regards,
Mike Turber
BladeForums Site Owner and Administrator
Do it! Do it right! Do it right NOW!
www.wowinc.com

 
Geez Mike Why did you have to go and post that? Now the WHOLE world knows I'm a ...ing
idiot instead of just my wife, Professor Lester and 1/2 the world. I love this place.
:-)
 
That's ok, Tom- I knew it long ago as well! :p

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Tim
Nor'east Knives
noreastknives@bigfoot.com

There are two rules for ultimate success in life.
Never tell everything you know.
 
Thanks for noticing Tim but you have good reason. You've met me in person. You're in the northern hemisphere though now the WHOLE world knows. What are my grandchildren going to think? Doesn't matter they must know by now.
 
Hey, Tom, STOP WHINING!!!!
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Blues

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Here, kitty, kitty, here kitty, kitty...

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Regards,
Tim
Nor'east Knives
noreastknives@bigfoot.com

There are two rules for ultimate success in life.
Never tell everything you know.
 
Ok Guys i don't mind playing the village idiot since there is a vacancy. Go ahead and have your fun. Any of my other FORMER friends want to reply?

[This message has been edited by TomW (edited 26 September 1999).]
 
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