Dads and knives

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UDDwaine's post kinda got to me this morning. As my family is preparing to travel to my mother's house for Thanksgiving, it made me get introspective about my father and knives.

He was a cotton mill hand all his life, got only to eighth grade before he had to start working in the midst of the Great Depression. Yet he was well-read and self educated.
A man of great character and faith, a WWII veteran, he and mom would go without for their kids. We were just above dirt poor, but our house was full of books. They placed a great value on education, and my sister and I had a great deal of explaining to do if we ever brought home a B on a report card. They raised two high school valedictorians. He is also the one who, when I got discouraged with working my way through college and threatened to quit and got to work full-time, confronted me with a coke bottle in his hand and threatened to de-brain me if I ever said such a thing again. (He had a straightforward way of explaining things.:D) Thanks, dad.

He turned me loose with my first knife at my fourth birthday. A cheap Japanese fixed blade with a compass in the handle, I still have it. I wish that I still had one of those large wooden Bowies he used to whittle for me. He also made steel spear-heads for me at the mill, which I would mount on a suitable homemade shaft. I was expected to be careful with them, and knew that if I got into trrouble with them there would be dire consequences.
I never did. Because his childhood had been cut short, he was determined that I would have a good one, and I roamed the woods at will, 12 gauge single-shot at hand. (An eight year old loose with a shotgun today would cause quite a stir, but then and there, no one gave it a second look.)

Poor, hell. I was rich.

He;s been gone seven years now. To this day, the strongest criterion I have for my behavior is whether the old man would be disappointed in me.
 
You are fortunate indeed. As I'm sure you know, not all of us had someone like that. It's good to hear that a good father is not just a myth.
 
I am fortunate that my dad is still with me, and I make sure that I visit my parents at least twice a year. I am in California, and they are in South Dakota, and the driving distance is a hair under 1,400 miles. I enjoy the drive, which is about 19 hours.

I hunt with my dad during these trips, usually prairie dogs in the Spring or Summer, and pronghorn antelope in the Fall.

My dad turned 74 in August.

He hunts larger game on a regular basis. He got two or three deer this Fall, and one or two pronghorn antelope. He got a 6x6 bull elk last October.

My first Randall knife, a #1-7" with Stainless Steel blade and an obligatory (for my dad) Stag handle, was a gift from him, and it has his name etched on the right side of the blade:

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For those who have lost your dad, I am very sorry about your loss. For those whose dad is still with you, be sure to treasure the time that you spend with him.

BTW, my parents will be celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary in August of 2011. I ordered for them a Randall (#5-6" with the following options: Stainless Steel blade, Nickel Silver hilt, Stag handle, Wrist Thong, and two lines of Blade Etching) as their gift several years ago. I also ordered a special sheath with a rattlesnake inlay. It is in Rick Bowles' hands at the moment, to be scrimshawed, specifically the polished portion of the Stag handle closest to the hilt. Rick sent to me these photos of the knife, showing the blade etching, along with the special sheath:

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I considered a Busse Combat knife as their gift, but my dad's definition of a knife handle includes Stag or Stag, and if Stag is not an option, then Stag is an acceptable handle material.
 
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it hit me aswell.... i too am very fortunate to have my father, and i hope to keep him as long as i can. i always know that when i am truly upset he will be there for me to comfort me and hold me. I hope one day to do something similar to this for him...as a thank you for everything he ever did for me
 
Hi Mike - I think you and I grew up quite similarly. My parents made sure that my brothers and I all got an education. I was the first one on my father's side and the 2nd on my mothers that ever graduated university {we call it University in Canada, not college :-) }, and without their "support" I probably would have quit and done something else...

I started fishing with my father when I was 5 or 6, and by the time I was 11 or 12 I had my own fish hut and drove my own snowmobile out fishing. For those that do not know, a fish hut is used for ice fishing...

By that time I also had my own shotgun and .22, and did a lot of trapping, hunting, and fishing.

We knew that if we got in trouble, we were in more trouble at home.

But we also knew that if we ever needed either of my parents' they would be there. I remember one time when I was in university and my motorcycle broke down, I called and they drove 3+ hours each way to help me. When I was finishing my basement, he drove 1200+ miles each way and stayed 2 weeks to make sure it was done right :-)

At the time I also felt poor, since I grew up in a 1 industry town, and that industry was fishing during the time that the Cod quotas were almost eliminated. But, I realize now how well off we were...
 
Thanks for sharing your story. As my father is getting older and less able to do things I cherish the memories of him when I was young. The other day he gave me quite a few bowies and other blades that he had accumulated over the years. Nothing too fancy or notable but then mean a lot to me. Thanks for getting me to thinking about it again.
 
some of the dad stories really hit home with me.you guys that have had good fathers are soooo lucky and i am very envious:(.mine left home when i was 4-5 and have only seen him periodically through the years.he never cared much for his 6 kids and 11 grandkids.you hogs out there cherish your dads and i love the good stories;):thumbup:
 
My dad's always been interested in knives. Not as much as I am, of course, but he has a pretty sizeable collection of his own. He and I have spent many happy hours bumming around in the woods together. Lately, I've been teaching him new tricks with knives- he didn't realize what they are capable of when you know what you're doing. Dad's more of a "heavy equipment" kind of guy. He used to drag a chainsaw around on his tractor for everything. Now he has a NMFBM permanently mounted to the roll bar, and uses it all the time.
 
I wish my old man shared my passion for a well made knife...:( I can't complain though, as we can still surf together :D:thumbup:

I know this is a little off subject, but Lunde, are those Randall's full tang? Those are the most gorgeous looking stag handled bowies I have seen man. I was really blown away...
 
Thanks for sharing, Mike. I hope my little lady speaks about me like that some day. I know that I am certainly lucky to have my father.

Happy holidays to everyone here.
 
My pops is not an outdoorsman and has no use for knives outside the kitchen. The only way he influenced my knife collecting maybe is via OCD. He collects model buses and trolleys; I collect knives (and stuff).
 
My Pa passed away back in June of 96, so I'm just jealous of time spent with fathers. Good on ya Ken and all of you that can spend time with your Pops.
 
they didn't have paternity testing back in 51, but i did kill a bunch of wabbits with somebody's model 61 pump winchester who claimed to be my father :thumbup:




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