It's normal for SOME of the diamond to scrub off, but excessive damage will be done if too much pressure is used. Keep pressure as light as possible, and I'd also recommend using water for some lubrication. It'll keep the swarf in suspension, so it won't clog the diamond hone. I've used mine to flatten ceramic hones, and a method that's worked for me, is to immerse the diamond hone in enough water to keep the surface covered. I used a Pyrex dish, with a piece of wet/dry sandpaper under the hone, to keep it from sliding around.