I am no expert, but from what I've read DLC is the best. It is super hard but so thin that if you scrape it w/ enough force, it will be defeated. I've had a few DLC-ed knives and never had them scratch, but I don't use for digging & such.
I read a couple years ago that Kahr pistols decided to make a black pistol after requests from LE customers. They did extensive testing of coatings, and found that DLC was the best, especially I think in terms of scratch resistance, so that is what they decided to use.