I had a hard time trying to understand the questions being asked. Glad to see some of you gentlemen jumped in to give David a hand.
David, "mild steel" is steel that is low in carbon content. Too low to make a good knife out of. It has a Carbon content between 0.05% and 0.25%. Also called "structural steel", used in buildings.
A knife should have at least 0.5% carbon, preferably 0.7% and above. The vast majority of factory stainless steel kitchen knives use a stainless steel that has only around 0.5% carbon in them, plus a few other alloys like Moly and Chromium. This, being a relatively low carbon content, will only achieve a hardness of ~ mid 50s HRC after hardening/quenching/tempering. They simply cannot be made any harder, due to their chemistry. A "butcher's steel" (sharpening rod) works quite well for "general maintenance" of these knives/steels, as the "butcher's steel/rod" is a lot harder than the blade steel. Think knives like Whustoff, Henckels, Victorinox, Chicago Cutlery, etc.
But when using a better blade steel that is harder, like 60HRC and up, a "butcher's steel/rod" isn't the best choice, as the edge is approaching the same hardness of the butcher's steel, often exceeding it in hardness. This is why a "ceramic rod" is often recommended when doing maintenance on better/harder blade steels.
And has been discussed already, you will eventually need to go back to the stones to re-establish a solid edge apex after a number of sessions of using the rod (or green compound). When do you need to go to the stones? That is a function of a few variables, like how often the knife was used, what it was used on, user technique on the butcher's steel, etc.