Dumbest thing [or things] you've ever done for a woman?

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I feel particularly duped by one. always the kinda guy to keep it all inside, but when one comes around... man...

i know we've all done some things in the name of love we may or may not be proud of, so lets hear it! good, bad, indifferent i wanna hear your biggest gambles when it comes to love/marriage/the other sex
 
Been with the same woman since I was 17, (34 years) married for 29 years in July and I can't think of any dumb or stupid thing I've ever done for her, I've done stupid things because of her.

I once destoyed an old phone booth, (ya know the kind with the glass and the foldin' glass doors, the kind that were all around in the 70s) because she hung up on me durin' an argument.

I literally ripped the phone off the booth, blew out all the windows and flipped the booth over, than went to her house and brought her back to the phone booth to show her how mad I got 'cause she hung up on me, (she only did it 1 more time after that).
 
Picked up a soon to be ex after she'd had an accident, driving rain and horrible winds......caused me to wreck my "baby" 2002 mustang GT that I'd paid for since the day I turned 16.....still makes me upset to think about it, and that was 2 yrs ago
 
Moved from NM to VA, when I was perfectly happy in NM. One year later she broke off the engagment.
 
I stayed with one for 9.5 yrs. That was really dumb.
 
I had a 24 hour leave one time when I was working in the southern Mexico (working in Mexico City sucks). I took a flight all the way to Tijuana just to be with my girl for an hour at the airport.
I barely made it back. But it was worth it. To this day she still remembers that. :p

She’s married now with kids. She married one of my closes friends’ actually. I’m happy for them. I took the hard road, and I have never regretted it. But still, I remember that hour at the airport (xxx):o.
 
I suppose that buying a leisure suit ranks way up there.

I must say as I approach my 40th wedding anniversary in ten days, whatever was the dumbest, she was worth it.
 
Gave away all my "big" knives and choppers because my luggage was overweight when I was moving to be with her. (Greyhound sux). Been married 5 1/2 years now and have much bigger and better ones, but sometimes I still miss some of them.
 
I had a 24 hour leave one time when I was working in the southern Mexico (working in Mexico City sucks). I took a flight all the way to Tijuana just to be with my girl for an hour at the airport.
I barely made it back. But it was worth it. To this day she still remembers that. :p

She’s married now with kids. She married one of my closes friends’ actually. I’m happy for them. I took the hard road, and I have never regretted it. But still, I remember that hour at the airport (xxx):o.

thats the kinda stuff i'm looking for! i know i can't be the only one haha

girl i'd known for years, ran into her saturday may 21st, first weekend of being 21. run into her at the bar and boom. we make eye contact from across the floor and sparks flew like i've never seen em before. it was electric. i ignored it; i'd been hurt pretty bad 9 months before and being recently of age wasn't looking for much of anything but a drink.

but before the night's through, the guy who'd been buying her drinks and dancing with her all night comes up and taps me on the shoulder and tells me that a beautiful woman wants to dance with me. i turn around and leaning against the speaker is my freshman RA; the girl i'd connected with earlier that night. it'd always been platonic and i planned to keep it that way. but we dance the night's last dance, and she gives me her number so as to have breakfast for old times sake and catch up.

breakfast comes sunday morning, and i take her to a small diner in town; my treat. we talk and she's just all smiles and giggles, but being still bitter from the last time i ignore it. i shoot her a text afterwards saying it was nice catching up and she makes some flattering remarks and its finally too obvious and i simply can't ignore it any longer. i was furious with myself that i couldn't stop thinking about this girl. but think i did, and i ask her what she's doing friday.

well monday rolls around, we've been exchanging messages and my mind hasn't rested. so i ask if she's available to talk in person. and so she comes over and we talk about these feelings we're having and the fact that in a month she leaves for out of state internships until thanksgiving. but we jump in head first anyways.

what would have been our first date that friday, ends up being our fifth and i ask her to be with me, regardless of the fact she's leaving. i tell her i'll wait. i meet alot of people, and they might be here while she's there; but she's got something they don't.

and so goes one of the fastest, most passionate months i've seen. 30 days felt like 3 years. it seemed like i'd known her forever. and then sunday june 26th rolls in and she dumps me on my ass. she takes her things home from my apartment and i grab my things from hers the next day. but come tuesday, i run into her at the beach and we talk casually. very bitter sweet. it was so nice to see her, even though it hurt so badly

wednesday rolls in and i ask her if she'd like to see a movie. she takes forever to get back to me but i try to be patient. it is after all the day before she leaves the state and i just wanna see her before she goes. she says she would like to see a late movie. but ends up skipping, and i see the movie alone. after the movie i call her in case she's still down town with her friends, but no answer. i go to the bar my friend works at, their last day of business and have a few and ponder.

i'd been contemplating something that would likely be a bad idea but near as i figured, you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. so i decide to stop by her place come last call. 2 am rolls up and long story short [too late] the romeo and juliet scene doesn't play out like it does in literature.

apparently throwing pieces of mulch at her window in the middle of the night isn't as romantic as i thought it would be. she never did come to the window or talk to me; just lay there pretending to sleep and tells me the next day that she'd been terrified and almost called the cops [sigh] ya win some ya lose some. at least i tried.
 
I gave up kickboxing and training, which I really loved, to spend more time with family. Then making knives as a hobby. She said I spent to much time in the basement, sometimes all weekend without a break. I get too focused on things I really like to do. I guess it has worked out for the best, as we have been married for 30 years now.
Steve
 
Been with my wife for 4 years now, married for 3. Joined the Army 4 years ago while she was still in med school. We have spent a total of about 16 months together the entire time we have known each other. When she was in school we used to drive half way and meet in the middle between Lower Alabama and Indiana. We would spend 2 mights together and then have to go back to our respective lives. She finally graduated and came to be with me last May. We had a son this past January and then I deployed to Iraq in Feb. I can't wait to finally go home and be with my wife for the rest of my life, no interruptions.
 
Dumbest thing I ever did was spend time and money on a few women who didn't deserve my time and money... oh,well... live and learn. Now that I think about, I'm glad that's all I "lost."
 
What a great thread! ;)

Dumbest: In 1980 I was so in love with a beautiful 28 year old fashion designer (I was 24) that I spent all my time and $ fixing up her '68 Volkswagen. Put probably $1500 bucks (I was making $7.50 / hr.) and I don't know how many hours into it. It rocked when I was done.

For some incredibly dumbass reason left all my S&K Tools my Dad had given me back when I was 12 (also 1968), in her trunk. These tools had tremendous sentimental value to me, and I loved them; probably why I left them in her car, that and it was easier for me to get to them when I had to fix something.

A year later she dumped me in favor of an "older" 34 year old guy, (who ended up buying her a house.) I was so hammered I never even thought about my tools. But, karma rears it's ugly head: a few months later the car was stolen (gee, I hate it when that happens! :rolleyes:) They found it two weeks later up in Oregon, completely stripped, and of course the tools were gone.

But, at least a car thief got them, and not some grasping money hungry b%$^h. :D

Wish I still had them though...!

Norm
 
Help a girl through college. I was with this girl for 7 years. Sadly didn't work out in the end.

I literally helped her graduate. She couldn't write a paper if her life depended on it. I figured, some people just suck at writing papers just like some people suck at taking standardized tests. I told her to study her ass off and pass all her exams because I wasn't writing her papers for nothing. She did end up passing everything. Some papers I wrote for her got the highest marks in her class out of all classes. I recall we stayed together a few years after that before things just didn't work.

Flew up to see her and her family one Christmas holiday only to end up having "the talk." Things ended one year on Christmas Eve. Christmas was never the same for many years to come needless to say.

I learned my lesson. Never again will I do something like that. No one is worth that much to me anymore. Maybe I'm just bitter because things didn't work out. Maybe I'm just picky now. Maybe a bit of everything.

People do stupid sh*t for love when they strongly believe things will last forever. I was set on marrying that one. People around us expected the same thing. Things don't always work out.
 
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