That's a pretty wide question. You'll get a lot of opinions from several different people.
A steel that one person thinks is great, the next person may not like it.
Really it has to do with heat treat and also how you sharpen.
In my experience good steels for EDC that hold an edge well are:
s30v
s35vn
CPM-M4
CPM-154 - I don't see any Spyderco's or Benchmade's with this steel though.
CTS-XHP
M390
D2
Benchmade also seems to use 154CM on a lot of their knives. My experience with Benchmades in this steel has been very positive and I've had no complaints on how the steel performs or it's edge holding ability.
- M4 is a tough steel that is easy to sharpen up and holds it's edge for a long time, much longer than s30v. I've realized that it isn't super easy to roll but it will micro-chip fairly easily, easier than s30v. s30v has more of a tendency to roll though. However M4 isn't a stainless and has more of a tendency to rust, or stain.
- s30v and s35vn have about the same edge retention but s35vn is tougher. It's not as corrosion resistant as s30v, but is still very resistant. s35vn is also easier to sharpen than s30v and is less prone to chip/roll. In my experience it takes a keener edge than s30v.
- CPM-154 takes a keener edge than both s30v and s35vn. Is easier to sharpen than both and is fairly hard to roll or chip. Though it's easier to work with and shape. It holds its edge for quite a long time, longer than s30v in my experience. Or at least it holds it's razor edge for longer. It's working edge stays for a long time as well, s30v has this same characteristic.
- M390 is similar to M4 but is more wear/corrision resistant.
- CTS-XHP is similar to D2 in it's capability to take a fine edge and hold it for an outstanding amount of time. CTS holds it's razor edge for a very long time and is about as tough to sharpen as s30v from what I know. However, I believe CTS holds it's edge for longer than D2 and is more corrosion resistant.
- D2 is a favorite among knife makers for its great edge retention and being more corrosion resistant than other tool steels(from what I've experienced and read). D2 actually has a very good corrosion resistance as long as you don't leave it soaking in water or some other corrosive material lol. D2 takes a very fine and keen edge without rolling and will hold it for a very long time.
Really you just need to search for the steel that has the most things you like about it.