Fantastic spousal development!

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A little background:

I have been married to the same, wonderful woman for nearly sixteen years. She has known about my obsession with steel objects for all of them. She even bought me my first Spyderco for our second or third anniversary. However, since then, she has showed little interest in the finer aspects of cutting tools. She even has resorted to making jokes with me as the butt, and had no shortage of fun at my expense when I made sure she had a nice "survival backpack" when she went on a winter road-trip with her sister through the mountains.

Saturday, however, she surprised me.

She has always had, on her keyring, a cheap, low-quality pair of nail-clippers that had a chrome-plated knife blade that folded into it. I kept it sharp for her, but never saw her use it. Well, in the course of the kids "borrowing" it, it is now missing.

During our outdoor activities afforded by the beautiful weather we had over the weekend, she noticed the ever-present SAK Classic on my key-ring, and mentioned "I would like to have one of those." Now, she has borrowed it on several occasions, and knew how fine an edge it carried, and the usefulness of the scissors, and realized how much she needed a knife for day-to-day uses, now that her cheapo was missing. I pulled it off my key-ring right there and handed it to her, with the observation that I thought she looked down on my hobby. She replied "I know I tease you a bit, but they really are useful."

Of course, she almost ruined it by adding "Besides, it's cute."

Doesn't matter.

I love that woman.
 
Excellent!!

My wife of 15+ years never understood my fascination with knives in the beginning - now she likes them and always asks if they make it in pink!
 
Nice!

I gave my wife a small SAK for her keychain (Rambler? I forgot the name) and she grudgingly admitted how often she uses it at work.
 
My ex-wife never understood my knife collecting, or hunting, or anything for that matter. I gladly divorced her and after 15 years of being single, I have found the perfect woman. She gleefully accompanies me to all gun and knife shows and has started her own knife collection. She even joined my knife club!! I love this woman!
 
That's fantastic!

I too have a great wife. she really doesn't care what I buy, when I bought and how much it took to own it.

Does it really get any better than this?

Life is good! :)
 
Good to hear she's warming up to the practicality of knives :thumbup:

Mine thinks I'm an obsessed knife Knut-job ( which I am proud to state I am . :p)

She thinks one knife is the same as any other. Funny thing is , she is ALMOST as good as the "old man " is with a cutting tool...be it a knife , machete , axe , or whatever. I never have to supervise her , and a bonus... she splits almost all the firewood :D
 
Excellent!!

My wife of 15+ years never understood my fascination with knives in the beginning - now she likes them and always asks if they make it in pink!

Just the other day I was watching a show with my GF and she understood my fascination. It was about 2 forestry workers who were fighting for their lives in raging flood waters because they had slipped. I said "You its amazing how their rescue came down to the rescuer's having a good knife. The police, coast guard, and helicopter used great technology, but it all came down to a tool thousands of years old to save them".
 
My wife lost her Al Mar Osprey in pearl handle, but now carries a Benchmade Mel Pardue 530. It looks terrific in her hands, and she knows she gets me all hot and bothered when she pulls it out and deploys it. I bought that knife for me, but I had a dream one night that she told me, "I think I should carry that one." I told her the dream that morning, and it has been her knife ever since. She bought me a Benchmade 710 in D2 this weekend. I am diggin' it, and definitely have the best woman at my side that I could ever find. I scored big time when I married her.
 
lol, these are the sweetest stories that i've read. Congrats.
My wife dont like knives, dont want to touch it, but will happily wait for me for an hour for me to check out various knives at the stores. I feel you man. Congrats to you all and your beautiful relationships.
 
My wife is like that. I wanted to get her a purse knife. Her response after looking at several folders was, "I guess I'm spoiled on Barkies." Gotta love it!
 
She is a keeper! My girlfriend just loves watching me use my knives. Alwasys asks about them. She does comment that I need to let the hair grow back on my arm though :)
 
I thought you were going to say she bought your dream knife for you out of the blue. Still a nice story though. My wife rolls her eyes at my knife obsession but she does carry a Spyderco delica every day.
 
I thought you were going to say she bought your dream knife for you out of the blue. Still a nice story though. My wife rolls her eyes at my knife obsession but she does carry a Spyderco delica every day.

Well, not this time, although, she did get me my first spyderco, an early Endura about 12 years ago.:)
 
my fiance carries 4 knives daily which of one is a tanto strapped to her calf... :)
 
I'm lovin' all this spousal goodness! My wife and I just celebrated our 12 year anniversary and what did she get me? A new tan handled, stonewashed Emerson A100.:D

She also has a pink Spyderco Delica in her purse (which she uses ALOT) a foliage green Spyderco Ladybug on her key chain and a pink Izula in the kitchen drawer for general house use. Yep, she's a keeper!:thumbup:
 
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