Hey beginner,
Done a lot of flint and steel for historic reenactments. Learn to make a good char cloth. It'll catch and hold a spark for a long time till you can get some tinder around it to blow it into a flame. The Steel Wool works good also but I can't use that in the 1700's era! Char cloth you can make at home on the barbi or in a camp fire with an old tin and some pure cotton cloth. If you can find a reenactment/rendezvous open to the public near by, visit and you can probably buy some char cloth there, or someone will probably be happy to show you how to make it. I keep a little with some flint/steel and tinder in my emergency pack, right next to the bic and zippo!
Just gotta learn to blow harder! and don't give up, you'll get it eventually with practice.
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be prepared