If you want to continue using your XC on steel, you probably shouldn't use it to flatten. I have a DMT XC that I use to flatten my finer stones. Initially, the diamond plate lost a lot of its bite, but after about 7 flattenings, it has stabalized to a good (much less aggressive) surface for flattening.
If you are going to wait a while before ordering another XXC, wait a little bit longer and get an Atoma plate instead. They are VASTLY superior to the DMT plates because the diamonds on them are arranged into organized clusters that cut faster and don't bind up as quickly. You can find them on chefknivestogo.