Benchmades are Awesome, so are Spydercos. My Brother carries a CRKT - that he Loves too.
Kershaw also makes a great knife - and their support is great from what I hear.
In Short - there are many great knives to choose from

A Couple of my favorites are the Titanium Vision by SOG - (think they got permission to use the Axis lock from Benchmade

) - any way it is awesome. none of Sogs folders have ever come close to that level of craftsmanship - that I am aare of any way.
The one that has the most pocket time for me though has to be a Small Sebenza - smooth as butter on the open/close - have edcd the small classic version for a few years now - and no matter what else I get I always seem to go back to it. Ergonomic, Smooth, thin, light, discreet for pocket carry, can take a beating (literally), holds an edge well - have not found anything that can beat it out in view of all those requirements (so far anyway

- but I'm always looking..
Good Luck with your decision, and welcome to Blade Forums!!!