With Benchmades, I think there are two separate problems.
The first is that the edge bevels are ground at just too high an angle. By my reckoning, 25 degrees or more, which is an angle I reserve for knives that take serious edge punishment, not for my folders. I want my folders to cut, so I like 17 degrees-ish, 20 degrees max.
The other is that the edge does seem thick. When the blade gets sent off for heat treat, the knife isn't sharpened all the way yet, because a very thin edge will have problems in the heat treat. Maybe Benchmade leaves the edge a bit thick, and doesn't grind it off when doing the final edge.
As Couger pointed out, my favorite way of thinning the edge out is to grind an intermediate bevel. So I'll grind a 15-degree thinning bevel, and take that to within 1/32" (or more often, 1/64") of the final edge. Then I'll throw a 20 degree bevel on top of that. The result is a nice thin edge, which *seriously* outperforms the factory edge, but which is still strong enough to hold up to what a folder needs to do.
Joe