Freak accident....someone we know

Locutus D'Borg

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So we live in a condo in San Diego. There is another couple, looks to be our age (70's), in our condo who we see all the time (not friends, more acquaintances). They were driving on the freeway a couple days ago, he was driving. A truck filled with bags of cement flips over near them and a cement bag flys through the air, crashing through the passenger window killing her instantly. He was completely unharmed as was his car except for the shattered window (it was on the news with photos). Holy moly, we are still in shock.

Our board is trying to decide what to do as flowers seem so minor. IDK.
 
So we live in a condo in San Diego. There is another couple, looks to be our age (70's), in our condo who we see all the time (not friends, more acquaintances). They were driving on the freeway a couple days ago, he was driving. A truck filled with bags of cement flips over near them and a cement bag flys through the air, crashing through the passenger window killing her instantly. He was completely unharmed as was his car except for the shattered window (it was on the news with photos). Holy moly, we are still in shock.

Our board is trying to decide what to do as flowers seem so minor. IDK.
holy shit.

sorry to hear this
 
Very sad.
You just never know.
 
And I thought a pebble from a gravel truck dinging my windshield was bad. Hopefully his kids rally around him and make sure he's okay.
 
That's very bad ,I bet there was something wrong with that truck too. How we survive at all is a miracle. Sad
 
So we live in a condo in San Diego. There is another couple, looks to be our age (70's), in our condo who we see all the time (not friends, more acquaintances). They were driving on the freeway a couple days ago, he was driving. A truck filled with bags of cement flips over near them and a cement bag flys through the air, crashing through the passenger window killing her instantly. He was completely unharmed as was his car except for the shattered window (it was on the news with photos). Holy moly, we are still in shock.

Yeah, and what's especially sad is that they were inseparable; we never saw them apart. Our condo board asked if we could do anything but he said he just wants his privacy.

What an absolutely horrific tragedy. I couldn't even begin to fathom how shockingly stunned this poor soul must been, trying to process this instantaneous nightmare that unfolded out of nowhere on their random early afternoon commute......and then just like that, having to witness his loving partner in life/wife, sitting within 2 feet of him, brutally killed instantly.


I had heard about this tragic accident from a friend of mine up here in the North County a few days ago; it wasn't until after I read your OP, that I decided to search for more details on Google.

Just last night, I was returning home back up to the NC after from visiting a friend down in Mission Valley so I'm well aware of the exact location of this overpass. I typically take the 52 W- 805 N. The 805 S bridge overpass is very high, and is a pretty sharp curve for fast moving traffic to navigate.

When you stop to think about the 1 in a million chain of events that occurred (involving both the driver of this work truck, and this unlucky couple).....and think about a million other scenarios/what if's, where less that a 10th of a second, could've been the difference between life, and death. A lane change, a mile difference in their MPH speed.....a distraction here.....a tap on the brakes......you could go on and on and on. He will forever be tortured over this.

I really don't know what to tell you, but if this happened to one of the neighbor's, I would buy him a Hallmark card and write a short and sweet note conveying my deepest condolences along with my phone number, letting him know if he ever needs anything, even if it's just a hug, that I'm here. I feel devastated now, just knowing these horrific details of this very sad heartbreaking story, LD'B.

Life is so full of unpredictable randoms....and can be so fleeting.
 
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A few months ago (also here in the CC), there were several of us former JD member's, making one last valiant effort to spare the JD from it's eventual demise....

I came across a sibling of Ron La Bella's via social media, whom I reached out to. She had this very profound post on her timeline, written by a psychotherapist based in New Jersey. This was one of the deepest, most profound writings I've read in quite some time; this tragic, heartbreaking story, made me think of this again:

Sue Waldman, MA, LPC, BCC

Every second someone leaves this world behind.
Age has nothing to do with it.
We are all in "the line" without knowing it.
We never know who is before us.
We can not move to the back of the line.
We can not step out of the line.
We can not avoid the line.
So while we wait in line:

Make moments count.
Make priorities.
Make the time.
Make your gifts known.
Make a nobody feel like a somebody.
Make your voice heard.
Make the small things big.
Make someone smile.
Make the change.
Make love.
Make up.
Make peace.
Make sure to tell your people they are loved.
Make sure to have no regrets.
Make sure you are ready … to finish past the line.

Never settle for a life less than what you are capable of living. Anything is possible.
 
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