I sort of 'cut my teeth' on the Lansky system, so I feel like I understand your situation. My suggestions below are intended to help, IF you choose to stay with the Lansky. It has it's quirks, and a lot of people don't seem to care for it, but it can be quite effective with a measure of patience.
I have a lansky sharpening kit which I get good results with espically when I use my homemade strop here are my questions:
1. Some of the stones aren't flat anymore. Can this be fixed?
I'm sure they can, but the Lansky hones are relatively inexpensive. You might consider replacing them with the Lansky diamond hones (around $15 each). You can buy them individually, so you can replace them according to your own needs. This is what I'd do, personally (I already have, actually, for the same reason). To flatten them, you'd probably have to invest in some sort of flattening stone or other media, which may end up costing as much or more than just replacing the hones. As a bonus, the diamond hones won't go flat, and will last a good, long time, with proper use & care.
2. When I use the white ceramic stone should I get a burr? I havent been getting one but I might not be patient enough. Lol.
I've made a habit of lightening the pressure as I've progressed through each hone. This helps greatly in reducing the burr left by the coarser hones. By the time the white ceramic is used, there's very little burr left, if any at all. The key is to make sure you produce a burr ONCE, with only the coarsest hone. Then use the subsequent hones to reduce/remove the burr. You can even get a head start on that, by significantly reducing the pressure with the coarsest hone to clean up much of the burr, before moving to the other hones. There's no need to produce & remove a burr with each hone.
3. Is there any use to the blue stone?
I assume you're referring to the 'Super Sapphire' polishing hone? If so, use it only if you really want to get as much polish on the edge as is possible with the Lansky. I've never had/used the Super Sapphire, and personally haven't felt much need for it. I've been quite happy with the results produced up through the white ceramic (after which, I follow with stropping).
4. I have been reading about scary sharp but cannot afford an edge pro and im terrible with flat stones. Any ideas?
As has been emphasized by others, how sharp an edge you get is more about good technique, regardless of which tools/methods you use. Results can be improved dramatically by just working on maintaining a consistent angle, and using VERY LIGHT pressure (for the Lansky, just the weight of the hone on the blade, no more). It also helps quite a lot to narrow the 'gaps' in grit progression, as you go.
For a strop I'm using about 12" of an old belt with some blue magic metal polish rubbed in, is this alright? What improvements would you guys suggest?
Thanks,
Mike
Lots of possibilities. Basically, a good place to start is with a simple piece of veg-tanned cowhide, stuck/glued to a piece of wood. Green compound (chromium oxide) or diamond paste/sprays are very effective. Ideally, make two strops, one used with compound, and another used bare for final finishing. Horsehide leather seems to be the favorite for a bare strop, but it's more expensive.