Giving in to the Circle

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There's a family in town who built half of it. They sold the bar and the oldest son lives here still, his wife managing the Motel. That Motel is pure Benson, being polished clean inside, while the outside is covered with junk, debris, Kids and animals wandering about. There's a handmade benchseat in front of the office overlooking the what little of the Town square there is. Thick wooden slates, varnished and honey brown in color, showing off the wrought iron frame.

Carved into the bench in deep letters, "The Township of Zane, pop 50 and two cranks."

When you climb the hills and limestone circling the valley you see a lot of old mining claims, often a pile of rocks or a PVC pipe stuck in the ground is all that's neccesary to mark the border, and of those, half say Benson. Busted down crane in the gulch to the South; Benson. They'll never pull out that rusting eyesore, as tall as a three story house and in the middlle of an idyllic stream. Old trailer there too, Benson's lived there once. Same with the rottten two story house in town. A tree fell on it this winter and it's still there. Welcome to the Town of Zane.

In the 'old days', when there weren't many people around, when something busted and wouldn't work you left it where it lay, unless it happened to be in your way. Then you'd move it, ever so slightly, to the side of the road.

It's hard to leave that attitude behind, and there are many places in rural US where it still exists. This family has another traditional value of the West, the Frontier, and that's generosity and extraordinary.kindness. They helped us after we moved in and to this day. My drive is cleared of snow. Zeke and I cut down a tree on the mountain and rolled it into my back yard. Zeke came out one night to look for a gas leak. Zeke came out another night to look for a burglar. He delivered firewood. They take the kids when we're in a tight spot and have to leave them somewhere other than alone in the backyard. Always giving.

I know they have a hard time following the tourist trade. The motel is a seasonal thing. Spring and Summer you have guests. Fall has hunters. But Winter has no one, and it's a long winter in Montana. The Benson's go broke. Not during a great year, but in most of the others they strain a little. It's kind of pecular when you think of all the animals in the mountains and forests who feel the same way as the Benson's do about Winter. They get thin.

"Here's some gas money," I told her, "thanks for picking up that Saw in Billings." Mary Benson looked at me strangely and started crying.
"You've no idea, " she said with a breaking voice, " I have to go to Billings because of Zeke's Doctor appointment, but I didn't have enough money to get us home. Now I do."

"Zeke, thanks for the backhoe and my driveway." There wasn't any snow on the ground in late Spring. I handed him 50 bucks.
"Now, you take this, I don't want to hear none of that crap. Every Winter you dig us out, and for that matter the whole town. Least you could do is allow me to pay my share."
So Zeke takes the cash. The next day Mary shows me on the books where unless she paid 43.50 the electricity was shut down period, last chance closer. Tears in the eyes. "I prayed and prayed." She said.

This stuff happens a few times. I don't remember them all. I'm not surprised at the good timing; you get used to little miracles after a while living in the Holy Land of Montana.

Yesterday I put a ham and duck chicken thingid in the cab of the truck. I never did read what was on the Bird's wrapper. Sure enough, no meat in the house for the family, and very little food.

"You must be close to God," Mary said, "Four times, it's like you're wired in."

"Well, the Holy Ghost does hang out a lot with me." I nodded. I'm the guy who doesn't go to church. Her church, where my wife and children usually go every Sunday. How could I be close to God?

I don't know about all that. I know there is karma, and a circle. I know that when you give it comes back, and with love you find your way.
I like that kind of stuff.


munk
 
don't know about all that. I know there is karma, and a circle. I know that when you give it comes back, and with love you find your way.
I like that kind of stuff.

Me too Munk. me too:thumbup:

You'll not be surprised to learn that at this very moment I needed a boost--and decided to open your thread when I should be sleeping--just had a nice loud argument with my wife about silly foolishness just as I was trying to go to sleep. anyway I needed to be brought back to what really matters.

And there was your thread. the circle continues unbroken.
 
These kinda feel good threads really do have a way of coming along when a reality check and a break from the evening news are most needed.


The Cantina overall is good that way (even though I retain part time status) in reminding me of all the good folks out there.
 
Hey Munk parts from that "Busted down crane in the gulch to the South" would probably sell on ebay. Maybe mention that to Zeke. I know the steel on it is recyclable too. I, for one, would love to get a little piece of it to see what I could hammer out. (That is if I ever get a dang anvil.) Anyway. Maybe there is a lot of old equipment in those old claims that could be pawned off on ebay. Just a thought.
 
When I first drove from California to Columbus for grad school, I took back roads and stopped whenever I saw something interesting -- and many things interest me. Almost without exception, and all the way to the Mississippi, whenever I stopped, one or more "locals" would stop to see if I needed help. Their vehicles might have been a tad beat up, but their hearts were in First Class shape.
 
Many people in the largest cities think Red Neck is a bad word, I keep telling them; he's the guy pulling you out of the ditch that time you went to see Yellowstone.


....on a side note- I like the, ' and many things interest me'. I bet traveling with Linton is an experience.



munk
 
Great post Munk. Last night as I was trying to sell off the last 25 or so shirts that I have left of 550 for the Marine I am helping out I had so many people thank me for what I was doing. I felt kinda silly because I don't really think I'm the one that should be thanked, its the men and women like Sgt. Ryan that deserve the thanks and I told them that. Then one gentleman thanked me for my service as a police officer. I told him thank you back and said you know you are the 3rd person in my life that has ever thanked me and it meant a lot. As they left I said look for people like Eddie and just help out a little if you can, the world will be a better place because of it. I think they heard me.

Monday I order another 500 and I am also working on a hat design.

I'm not a church going man either but I've always done the right thing and feel we are all here to help each other and grow in doing so. Don't know what religion that would fit into, maybe I should be a Mason I dunno. :-)

Keep the circle going and random acts of kindness go a long way. You will get much more than what ever it is you give.

Semper Fi

Billy
 
munk said:
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....on a side note- I like the, ' and many things interest me'. I bet traveling with Linton is an experience.

munk

Uh, if you like making speed records, you could find the experience frustrating. If you like standing and looking out the same window as Jim Bridger did, seeing the "sea of grass" wave in the wind, you might enjoy the experience. Different strokes.
 
Andy, the rural Rocky Mountain West is littered with knives not yet made. There are leaf springs and old wrecks everywhere. I've a pile of leaf springs in my garage and I haven't collected in earnest.


munk
 
Thats pretty cool. I bet some of the old equipment in those mines would be cool stuff. My place would look like a dang junkyard to most I guess. Oh well. I hope your friend is OK. They sound like good folks.
 
Great people, it seems, live somewhere else.... where I have never been, but am going to go there someday, I think!

iBear
 
munk said:
Andy, the rural Rocky Mountain West is littered with knives not yet made. There are leaf springs and old wrecks everywhere. I've a pile of leaf springs in my garage and I haven't collected in earnest.


munk
You know Earnest too... he sure gets around. I never knew he left Kalifornia.

iBear
 
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