As Knifemaker.ca said, clearance from the motor housing is a factor. Use 8" wheels on 6" machines & 10" wheels on 8" machines. Make sure you have correct arbor hole size.
Consider a buffer, rather than a bench grinder. Wider throw & no need to remove guards. Harbor Freight & Sears carry 6" buffers.
If you use too much wax on gritted wheel, just work on something heavier, like a kindling ax, & work the wax off. You cannot glue new grit on the old. You have to follow the instructions & take all the old grit, wax & glue off, down to bare paper.
Though the paper wheels will work at slower speeds, they are most efficient at 3,000 or better RPMs.