There are so many different factors that go into how long a belt will last that a "one size fits all" approach falls under the "That dog won't hunt" catagory.
I personally have tried just about every belt out there over the past 15+ years, and can tell you that Steel type, grind type, grinder type, belt speed, forged or stock removal, and individual skill will all play a part in how long a belt lasts, or doesn't last.
I personally use a 50 grit blue zirconia for my heavy belts, and can get 2-3 times the life from them on forged blades (forge scale and the likes) versus ceramics or Hoggers. Knowing what will work in your shop will only come through trial and error. All the mid grade belts I use (120-400 grit) are standard LS309 AO (j-flex, aluminum oxide). The only place I get picky is on belts finer than 400 grit. I personally don't care for micron belts, the expense versus the life are just not economical (for me). Lately I have tried, and am impressed by, the Norton, Norax 600 grit belts. Everything after a 600 is usually hand work in my shop, but past the 600 grit mark the variety of products is limited anyway. I suppose one could say that this is like most other aspects of knifemaking, use whatever works best for you. Many times the compainies I order belts from will send me samples of new belts to try, and usually after 2-3 belts of a specific type you will know whether or not they are working for you.