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- Dec 1, 1999
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James,
I fully expect you to lock this when you read it. It has no knife content and clearly doesn't belong here. My reason for putting it here is to be sure Gunner reads it.
Gunner,
As I said in my other post, I have stayed out of the controversy that surrounds you because I felt sorry for you. You also were too easy of a target for me to feel anything but guilt if I would have posted about you. So that I am completely honest with you, I have discussed your actions in a private e-mail with another forum member. I kept it private for the above reasons. Things have changed considerably since then. I am going to try and do my best to not attack you needlessly, but rather address your actions and hope that you explain them.
I was hoping you would explain them in the "Some more of my designs" thread, but it got locked. (As it should have) From the start, in my own mind, I pegged you as someone who wanted to get something for free. There is nothing wrong with that, I enter every contest I can and sincerely hope I win every one of them. That is the purpose with most contests. They openly encourage people to enter and win something for free. The difference between that and what you have done is that you have shown no compunction with misrepresenting (lying) yourself to fellow forumites, moderators, and makers, in your quest to get a free knife. I think you owe everyone an explanation for your behavior. Help us understand why you would trade your personal integrity and reputation for a piece of steel. Don't insult our intelligence with an apology either. It has gone way beyond that. You have shown a propensity to play the victim role. To do or say something that reveals your true colors, draw people's ire, and then apologize and get other forum members to insult the people who saw you for what you really are. I doubt that there is anyone left who will go down that road with you anymore. You really don't owe me an explanation since you never drew me into the name calling. Don't you feel that you do owe one to the people you involved in your drama's? One thing I have learned from my 11 months of lurking and posting, people here are very forgiving of an occasional bonehead move. You have used up your apologies. It's time for you to give your explanation and then move on and NOT come back under an alias.
Jim
p.s. It's kind of odd, but for some reason I still feel bad for writing this. I guess what they say about rolling around in the mud is true.
Gunner, I don't wish you any ill will. On the contrary, I hope you come to realize the value of earning something through hard work. If you don't, you will be in for a pretty tough life.