Had good father/son moment yesterday.

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My boys, ages 6 and 7 have started taking an interest in my knife collection lately.

Last week I gave them a couple cheapies. One was a free knife that I got from cheaperthandirt when I bought a bunch of ammo and the other was small folder but which was very difficult to open and close.

Well yesterday, my boys came to me because they didnt like their knives. They couldnt open the folder and the other was just plain ugly (I was in total agreement). Anyway, they wanted to pick their own knives, rather than me picking for them. Problem was, they wanted to pick from my collection.

Now most of my knives are no cheaper than $80 bucks or so, and they go way on up from there. So that was not an option.

Then I had an idea. Told the boys to get their shoes on and we'll go down to Wallmart.

Sooo, all three of us went down to the sporting goods and looked over the big cardboard picture of knives. We picked out 4 or 5, had the clerk retrieve them, talked about the merits and dislikes of each one.

With some guidance from dad, My oldest picked out a Kershaw chive, my youngest choose a stag folder. I wanted the Kershaw vapor but they were out of stock, so I got Schrade Simon keychain knife instead.

My boys are proud as punch of their new "big boy knifes". I really enjoyed sharing my hobby with them.

That $80 bucks (total) spent on three knives was more rewarding than some of my far more expensive knives that I keep to myself.

(btw, in case anyone is wondering, I promply gave the boys a "special sharpening" to reduce the chances of them hurting themselves)
 
it's nice to share you passion with your children. theres nothing like a hobby the whole family can enjoy
 
Good job, dude...I wish my dad was a knife knut. Then maybe I could've gotten into it a lot earlier than I did--better late than never though...
 
Originally posted by ZENGHOST
Good job, dude...I wish my dad was a knife knut. Then maybe I could've gotten into it a lot earlier than I did--better late than never though...
Ditto.
Mine fears sharp knives. Always complains about how I keep it so damn sharp... well he finally stop complaining one day after he was trying to skin a salmon with a dull knife, I pass him a then new Victorinox paring knife and it did the job much faster than he tried to do with a so call chef's knife. It's unfortunate that we don't have any fillet knifes jus because we don't have to skin them often.
 
Congratulations on the experience with your kids. The only thing I might suggest is that you keep the knives sharp. A sharp knife is less dangerous than a dull one, IMO. Sound use and respect for the knife go much furthur in preventing knife injuries than dull blades do.
 
That is a day that you are not ever going to forget. A great memory for you to have. It is also one that will likely stay with your sons as they frow as well. You have started two more people on the proper path towards being responsible members of the knife community.
 
Reminds me of some of my father and son days. I started out my boy with Victorianox knives. He lost a few, put them down and walk away, go back and they are no longer there. He too, has my passion for fishing, guns, and knives. It is a pleasure to talk to someone else that likes the same things that you do and knows what you are talking about. He is 18 now and will be going off to college in a month.

On Saturday I talked him into going less tactical for his every day carry knife and we went to the local knife store and bought him a Benchmade small Griptilian and I got a Spyderco Military.

I am going to really miss him around the house.

Enjoy them while they are young, they grow up in the blink of an eye.
 
Yes, those are the moments to cherish. They grow up too quick. My son is twelve, and has a half dozen knives already. We just got home from shooting. Great day.
 
I started out my boy with Victorianox knives. He lost a few, put them down and walk away, go back and they are no longer there.

As a kid, I started with several Victorinox knives....loved 'em. I think my first knife was when I was 7-8 years old....lost that one and the next one :/

Then I got a new swiss army in 5th grade (10-11) and had that until I got a new knife a few years ago (18 yrs old now). The new knife that replaced that was a Wenger Mountaineer - definately a step above than the "normal" swiss army style knife...nearly 4" blade, used to be able to take it on airplanes (did, twice, pre-9/11).

Now, 18 yrs old, just bought my most expensive knife yet - $120 shipped SOG Tomcat II in cocobolo...the sweetest looking folder I have ever seen:D:D

Should arrive in a few days (hopefully...)

Warthog
 
Originally posted by one2gofst
Congratulations on the experience with your kids. The only thing I might suggest is that you keep the knives sharp. A sharp knife is less dangerous than a dull one, IMO. Sound use and respect for the knife go much furthur in preventing knife injuries than dull blades do.

Yea, I've got back and forth on that one. I want to install respect for knives in my boys, but not at the cost of a serious cut that might scare them away from the hobby or cause serious injury.

After debating for a bit, I decided to dull the blades up a bit and keep an eye on them, making sure that they are being responsible with their blades (of course, there was a whole lecture on that to ;) )

I think after a few weeks, if Im satisfied that they are being responsible, we'll sit down and have a sharpening lesson.

I don't think I'll make them scary sharp as I like my personal knives, but enough to make them useful and more uh, knifelike.
 
Im glad to see most of the folks here thought it was cool to.

What with PC nowadays and zero tolerance in schools, I kinda wondered if some might take a dim view of giving knives to youngsters.

Not that such disapproval would have changed my mind, its good to see like minded folks out there.
 
That's a great story! I can't wait to do the same with my kids. Right now knives are strictly OFF LIMITS. Later on when they're more responsible I'm sure we'll make our own trip to the knife store.

When I was growing up, I had knives from when I was about 5. I was supervised up until I was about 8 or so. After that, I was out whittling and playing mumbeldy peg and stretch with my brother and our friends, and NOBODY had to worry about us. I don't know where the world is headed these days. If some people saw a kid as young as that out playing with a knife they'd call the police or CPS or something. Back when I was young it was just good clean fun.

I hope you have a great time teaching your little ones how to be safe and responsible with their knives. You're lucky to have kids that want to share your interests!
 
dman4384, since you brought up school and zero tollerence, that reminded me about my talk with my son. He carried a knife almost all the time on weekends starting when he was in jr high. It came to me that if he happened to put on a pair of pants that he had worn on the weekend that was still clean to go to school, he may well forget to check the pockets for contraband. My orders to him, and you may think me wrong, was if he did somehow manage to wind up in school with a knife in his pocket, to get ill right then and there, and ask to call home immediately. While I don't condone telling a lie, it is far worse to have your kid do the right thing and tell the teacher he forgot to empty his pockets before coming to school only to rewarded with expulsion. Luckly, it only happened to him one day in high school and he realized he had the knife clipped to this pocket just after getting out of his car. He hid it in his car and told no one.

You worry about them cutting themselves, you worry that other think they are strange because they like guns and knives, then you worry that some police officer will give them a hard time for having a knife on them.

With kids, you just plain worry.
 
Great story,
Its to bad more fathers don't take the time to do what you have done or that some kids don't have fathers around to show them.
Once my son is older (he will be seven Dec. 1st :)) I plan on teaching him about knives and how they are to be treated.
Better I show him then one of his freinds or to have him think he is learning how a knive is to be used by watching some movie or tv show.

Same on guns. Best to show him that even though a .22 only puts a small hole in a pop can you can still hunt with it and its not a toy.

Anyway, I think it's a great thing you did with your son's

enjoy,
jp
South Dakota
 
Great thread!

My family and I were in Tennesee recently and made a stop in at Smoky Mt. Knife Works. My 9 year old son had been hitting me up for a folder all week. He ended up choosing a small green handled Spydie and once my 7 year old daughter saw what her brother got...she had to have a knife too. She chose a bright pink handled Victornox SAK....just her type of knife! After a full discertation on knife safety and use, etc....they have been carrying them everyday!

On another note....my son found a bucket of "HC" marked railroad spikes when were walking the tracks last year and I made him a knife out of the spike.

Here is a pic:
 

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Great thread. It's for reasons such as that that I've started saying "no" to guns and knives that I believe won't have the quality to last after I'm gone. I want these things to stay in my family, and hopefully my kids will develop a passion (or an appreciation) for a couple of the things that I do.

A couple of weeks ago, my 13 year old daughter asked if she could go with me the next time I go to shoot!! :D :D :D Yes, we can work that out! Now, about Dad's knives.... geegee
 
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