The best way to keep a sharp grind line is to first off start with a sharp grind line. If you can't feel the grind line after you ground the blade your going to wash it out when you hand rub it. I think stones are a waste of money. Tried them years ago and ended up making myself more work than what they were worth. I find a square stick with 4 equal flat sides works the best for me. Also for a good hand rub its best to start with a blade that is ground really good. Spend some time looking at the blade after you use a finer belt. If your seeing deep scratches go back and remove them before you start hand rubbing. I'll normally start hand rubbing with 220 grit with just about any type of oil, I prefer using some form of cooking oil or a mineral oil and leave the petrol base oils alone cause they give me a headache. After the 220 I'll go to 320 with more oil. After the 320 I'll do a quick etch and then a quick rub with 320 and water. If there's any scratches they will stand out better. Once all the scratches are gone I'll jump to 600 to 1500 to 2000. All the finer grits are done with just water.