Yeah you know you look at a lot of these famous poets musicians etc. and you know, you gotta admire their genius, but you gotta feel sorry for them in a way that a lot of them despite their success they were never able to be happy.
I friend of mine sent me a birth announcement a few years ago. In it was like a pedigree sketched out of his daughter. But it just had the names of the parents, grandparents, and so on.
Of course immediately I flashed on how it resembled a pedigree on a registered goat. But on a goat's ancestors there are show wins, appraisal scores that indicate conformation and milk testing records and on some USDA numbers that indicate the genetic potential for milk.
So I'm setting there thinking if we did human pedigrees like that what would we rate them on? IQ? Many people have a high IQ but are in poverty or are crazy. Longevity? Lifetime income? But you can be rich and still be miserable.
Finally I decided that it had to be how happy a person was. This is hard to quantify I know, but surely an important thing. To be happy and to have a feeling of thankfulness for what life is.
I think to a point happiness is genetic. I see friends so unhappy and depressed. I see that their parents were the same way. I'm old enough now to see sometimes 3 generations of unhappy people. What is interesting is a lot of people that are unhappy think kids will make them complete. This works sometimes, but more often than not I have seen it just produce more unhappy people.
Religion. So many people come to it not for self understanding or even to give thanks, but thinking it will make them happy. So many prayers are spoken only when we are backed into a corner not when we are giving thanks.
So when I look at some of these famous people, I admire their genius, and appreciate their contributions, but in another way they make me feel sorry for them that they never achieved happiness and thankful that I have got to experience so much happiness in my life
