I have got to defend Bluecross. They have been fantastic for me and my family.
When my daughter turned 19 she had to come off of my employer's family plan with BC, since she was not a full-time student. She also had no employer access to health insurance of her own. I chose to pay for COBRA coverage for her. My wife was against it, said that she had to stand on her own two feet someday. I told her that if anything major happened to Kim she knew darn well that we would go broke trying to keep her alive.
At age 21, in the second year of the COBRA plan, Kim was severely injured in a hit and run. She had extensive bodily damage, severe head impact, and brain stem damage. Not expected to live, then to always be comatose, then to always be in a persistent vegetative state (and the doctors gave me two opportunities to kill her, saying that she would never be anything but a vegetable.) As I type this, she is downstairs doing her own laundry, just finiished doing the dishes. In a wheelchair and can't talk, but mentally fully there and a blessing to eveyone she meets. You might have seen her at Blade this year.
Blue Cross/Blue Shield of Alabama paid out over $825,000 for her care. They put her in a managed care program, and never denied us anything under the plan that she needed. They did things that went way beyond what they were legally obligated to do. That Blue Cross COBRA policy was the best money I have ever spent.