beezaur said:
Oops, I guess I never answered your question, how to get started. I think a good way is to dive right in, but stick to trails. Once you get your skills "squared away," go out into the backcountry. You really do need to know your stuff or you can get into real trouble -- that's not just an admonishment from an "old hand" to a newbie. But it is pretty easy to develop the skills, so I would highly encourage you to dive right in and get started. Just be careful and know your limits!
Let's be clear about what "dive right in" means.
Start with dayhikes in county or state parks where the paths are well tread and the maps are easy to read. Try to meet people while you're doing it. Learn the importance of paying very close attention to your compass. I used to routinely get lost in some state parks in northern minnesota because you couldn't see the horizon for all the trees and the trails on the ground were never quite what the map said they should be.
While you're at it, take some orienteering courses. This is an actual sport in some areas and it will really help you learn how to use a map and compass. Use the internet to locate orienteering organizations in your area. Try to meet people while you're doing it.
Move up to camping overnight in a country or state park. This might be irritating if you pitch a tent next to a bunch of bozos who think that parks are for getting drunk. OTOH, I've met some cool people in communal camp grounds. Anyway, your goal here is to get comfortable pitching your tent, making a fire (if allowed) or using a camp stove, and cooking in the out of doors. Try to meet people while you're doing it.
You'll notice that you need to meet people. The truth of it is, you shouldn't go into the wilderness without at least one other person. Not only is it dangerous to hike and camp alone, especially as a novice, but it's also kind of lonely. So ... try to meet people.
Having met some people, organize an overnight hike/campout to a more remote corner of your local state or federal parks (county parks might not be big enough for this). What you want to do here is get away from the campsites that you can just drive up to, so look for camping sites that are 1 - 3 hours aways from the trail head. This is your opportunity to try out real backpacking. You'll have to carry everything in and figure out what to do with your food so the critters don't come looking for it. But hopefully you'll be close enough to your car that if things go bad (a racoon gets into your breakfast supplies, for example) you'll still be able to bail out.
Once you're comfortable with that (shouldn't take more than a season if you're consistently into it), start working up to increasingly more difficult hikes/outdoor experiences. Try to figure out what you really like doing. Don't think that it's all about backpacking. Maybe you just like to car camp (drive up to a campsite, pitch a tent, and do day hikes from there). Check out the BLM lands in your state for a less regulated experience than is offered at state and federal parks. In my state (CA), the BLM lands are pretty much open to whatever you want to do, within reason. Just don't burn the place down, and stay out of the woods during hunting season or you might get shot by some drunken bozo.
And if you get REALLY into it, go take some actual survival courses. I might be a bit old for it, but I keep eyeing the Boulder Outdoor Survival School, which looks like a serious challenge. Those are places where you can REALLY find out how to handle yourself in the great out of doors. I bet your state has one or two survival schools where they'll really teach you what you want to know.
About meeting people: I always had trouble finding people to camp and hike with too. Still do, for that matter, but I'm so busy with my family it doesn't really matter. That said, the internet can be your friend here. Try advertising on Craig's List or similar for hiking buddies (you know, looking for people online isn't always about hooking up). Also, your profile says you're a student. Try looking for outdoor groups at your school that you can hang out with. Check out the biology and geology majors, both of which attract "outdoorsy" type. Don't overlook the photographers; plenty of them will be into nature photography which will mean various outdoor experiences.
In short, your goals are to (1) get out, explore, practice your skills, and enjoy yourself and (2) meet people who want to do this with you so that the experience is both more fun and safer.
I hope this helps.