Google it. I did last winter and found several DIY stonewash guides.
IIRC ...
~ one did save his edge by taping it
~ vibratory tumbler with larger stones gave better results than smaller stones
~ use large polished river stones, about 1", or tumbler-specific ceramic pyramid stones
~ length of 4" PVC, sealed at one end, screw cap at other, filled with stones and WD40, and shook by hand while watching football
~ another cannister wrapped in towels, was tossed into clothes dryer. Broke off piece inside dryer and wife tried to break off a piece inside of him
It was enough to convince me I couldn't afford it nor worth the effort.