Revisiting this thread to discuss grit range. Right now I am using diamond plates up to 3000 gr. for initial sharpening and then finishing up with a 5000 paste strop. I find this gives me a decent toothy edge and can finally get it somewhat shaving sharp which is good for me being a noob. Would I benefit from an even higher strop grit, say in the 12,000 to 14,000 range without losing the good working edge I want? I'm not trying to see "how far I can take it" just even better edge refinement. Thanks.
If your goal is a very high polish, take it as far and as fine as you can afford to go.
If you'd like to retain some degree of toothy bite for a working edge, I'd suggest not going much finer than 6 micron or so. And use that minimally as well.
Used on wood, I've found DMT's 3-micron paste (8000 mesh, by DMT's own rating) to bring a high polish very quickly. If you like polished, that's a very good thing. But my preferences have shifted in a more toothy direction. So, if I use diamond compound at all, the 6-micron (4000 mesh) threshold is as far as I'm willing to take it. And even then, I limit the passes to maybe one or two per side. Diamond will clean up the edge very, very quickly at very light pressure. Anything more than a couple passes or so per side will be overkill and can erase much of that nice toothy bite very quickly.
OR, instead of a progression, sharpen on the hones to your preference for toothy bite. THEN, use something like 1-micron paste very, very minimally to just clean up the edge.
With anything diamond anymore, I've generally just stopped at the hone itself (usually 325 or 600). Any stropping I do after that, is just on a bare strop of leather or denim.