I tried, but my parents will probably never be knuts

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Everytime I use their kitchen in the back of my head I can't help but think that any one of my utility blades would cut better than their drawer knives. I can sharpen them up real quick but they get dulled just as fast because they're tossed in the sink, dishwasher, and back in the drawer with all manner of other utensils.

If the one they pick up is too dull they'll take it to a stone like I do... But they do maybe 10 passes like they were doing an infomercial with a knife steel. Just a bunch of passes "will do" I assume they are able to cut at all because of the toothiness left over.

So one day I showed my mom a bunch of simple diy knife blocks.
Her response was "oh yeah I think those are at the store for cheap"
"well I can make one if you'd like"
"no don't spend the time, I can buy it at the store"
"no it's okay, it'll be fun"
"focus on more important stuff like work"
"-_-....... "

Years back my brother and I suggested a knife block but they said "we don't really want to display them for people to see, or kids to be able to reach them"
We don't really have family come over often and rarely do the young ones swing by. My parents stopped needing to worry about kids and knives since I was 10.(although it didn't stop my mom worrying about my folders until I was 16)

Just a few days ago I took all the wood handled kitchen knives and refinished them with linseed oil. These kitchen knives have been in our possession for the better part of 20 years. They're all "Kiwi brand" knives made in Thailand.

After getting them shine again like new I showed her and she said,
"why?"
"it protects the wood from absorbing too much water, ... It'll dry faster"
"oh, the magnetic rack makes em dry pretty fast"

"....... I'm going to do this stuff on my own from now on mom... "

... No love for tried and true users almost as old as I am, :(
 
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The holidays are fast approaching and I can see a set of decent kitchen knives forthcoming. I like the Victorinox ones.
 
The holidays are fast approaching and I can see a set of decent kitchen knives forthcoming. I like the Victorinox ones.

They prefer something cheap and simple. That's why all of them are from Asian grocery stores at $5-15.

Getting them a nicer set would only make them want to use it less, like the China wear that's been used maybe once.... By me
 
I guess you just learn from it, accept it, and move on. You're doing just fine. Don't sweat it; there will be lots of times when other folks won't care to hear about your particular ideas. Parents are okay; I'm glad you have some. Lots of folks don't. Actually, I think you are very lucky.
take care.
 
You can't change people. Luckily, my family appreciates a sharp knife in the kitchen. They don't necessarily understand the "need" for a $200+ kitchen knife, though and they might never get there.
 
I guess you just learn from it, accept it, and move on. You're doing just fine. Don't sweat it; there will be lots of times when other folks won't care to hear about your particular ideas. Parents are okay; I'm glad you have some. Lots of folks don't. Actually, I think you are very lucky.
take care.

Thanks, I'm not angry or anything. Just trying to share my hobby wherever it's useful. At the very least it makes me feel better seeing 20+ year old knives freshly sharpened and oiled.
And hopefully I can prevent slip ups due to dull knives.
 
I stopped sharpening my parents' knives because she would always have to be re-trained in order to avoid cutting herself within an hour of the deed. Once they discover the side with the burr I believe people with unknowingly dull knives develop whole new techniques of crush-cutting and slice-choking.
 
They definitely have their own way of doing things. After spending most of their lives in rural southeastern Asia I suspect they've got routines that just won't break.
They're happy enough to compensate any quality knife with experience.
 
My mom didn't care till I bought her a decent Henckels set and she was like "WHOA". Her favorite is the 7" Santoku.
 
I have a Spyderco Santoku knife that is an absolute joy to use. I can't imagine running it through the dishwasher as I take too much care to keep the edge sharp. I have been using it for 10 years now and it still cuts great. Only sharpen it twice a year and stays sharp in between with careful use and light steeling on a smooth steel.

I agree with the poster above that you should get them a decent knife and steel as a gift. It really brings out the joy in cooking to have a decent knife.
 
I definitely get my "user" traits from my parents ; they'll make something work until it absolutely cannot. Tool maintenance is the only thing I feel the lack, but most tools need minimal maintenance anyways.

All in all it leaves me with an extra set of materials to practice a hobby. Next thing is to reprofile the shovels, hatchet, post digger, ax, and hoe. Some of the handles have bad splits and splinters. The shovels are the worst off; their leading edges are rolled over.
 
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