Interesting read - and the self reflection game

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I was turned onto this author's site in, dare I say it, Prac-tak. Actually I have been in and out of the site for much of the day and although I don't agree 100% with all the writing, much of it is of an exceptional style (see the how to avoid rape hub - which I've forwarded to both my wife and daughter).

http://www.nononsenseselfdefense.com/violence_geeks.htm

One of the things very disarming about Marc's and Dianna's writing is that they invariably force you into a little bit of self reflection. The link above, I thought was a particularly good example of this.

I'm hoping that this thread neither turns into a bashing of prac-tac (even though I sort of alluded to that above - sorry) or political.

The 'Survival' aspect is recognizing the 'Violence geek'. The self-reflection part (for me) is where do I fit in the mix? Reality, is I kind am a recipe for the violence geek profile - hopefully at a surface. I'm not tactical crazy boy, but there are things about tactical that draw me in. I have an active imagination, and while outwardly am a very passive and empathetic individual, violent stories and a little fantasy kind of creep in there sometimes. It doesn't take much more than a perusal of my DVD collection see I like about of adrenaline now and again.

Reading beyond this article, and many others that Marc and Dianna have provided, I'm starting to question some of my motivations for why I carry an EDC and the circumstances under which I sometimes do so. I know I'm treading some dangerous waters here with this topic. On the other hand, I have generated a lot of trust for the W&SS members to keep it on the level. Even to the point of revealing my little self-reflection above.

Survival is a lifestyle the mantra we keep throwing up here. However, how much of our behaviour reflects a real and practical approach to dealing with perceived threats to our own and families' safety and how much of it is simply trying to address our emotional insecurities to the unknown? I see a lot of references to stock piling ammo and imagined scenarious to the SHTF condition? I even made two jokes about zombies in Snow's thread today (they really were jokes!).

We all spend a lot of time in this place, and while I think W&SS doesn't really promote the 'violent geek' as centralized in this article, we sometimes also do not go out of our ways to disuade clear references to it. Wouldn't it be completely ironic that our own culture of trying to create survival awareness might be a breeding ground for producing survival situations?

Okay - I don't thing that is our reality here, but sometimes a little self reflection isn't such a bad thing!!!
 
It thought it was kinda weird the author cited a crime novel "Julie Smith in the New Orleans Beat " as a starting point and basis for tje 'essay'. While Smith may have a great description of an emotional behavoir, she is cited like she is an authority and the author then builds on on that description without any factual basis for his argument.
 
Hey cool,

Somebody responding! Thanks modalnot - yes there is a lot of that scattered through the posts. What seems like really credible readings interspersed with odd-ball quotes - like reference to 'Thirteen warriors' movie in one of the writings. Still, there seems to be some good messages in the text. Perhaps clubbing you with the - if you react with violence there is going to be legal consequences - but it is a fresh take. I also like his common advice throughout - 'When the bad guy shows you his weapon and tells you to leave before he uses it on you.....That is a cue to actually leave...and in fact the best line of action rather than escalating the situation'. This common sense approach seems to be a total minority to so much of the writing out there.
 
leaving .. that has always been my favorite approach to those things too. None of those things in prac-tac have ever happened to me, but i live a very boring suburban existance. And im ok with that.
 
I do think there is something to be said for the difference between being prepared and being paranoid.

I read some forums where they ask 'When I am working on my roof - what pistol should I conceal carry?' and I think to myself - do you need to be armed at ALL TIMES? Seems paranoid and silly.

Having a small BOB packed is smart - having brass mesh in your walls to protect you from the 'waves' is just odd.

TF
 
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