It Is A Great Day

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After being with us for almost five years the adoption of our foster daughters was finalized this morning.
All of our adopted children are Alaska Native. They fall under Indian Child Welfare Act and their cases are handled by an agency that represents many of the over 200 remote villages.
We have had many hearings scheduled and canceled when the tribe could not get enough members to participate.
These sisters were 7 months and almost 3 when they came into our home.They had been taken from a party house and were not doing well. To see the changes their lives under the care of my wife Vickie is truly amazing.
The older daughter who is now 7 had been taking care of her sister and had many serious issues that have taken all these years to overcome.
She just graduated from first grade and was on the honor roll and at the top of her class. What a jewel she is!
In our home now we also have our 14 year old adopted daughter and her sister who we adopted out of foster care a year and a half ago when she was four months old and our foster son who just turned 4 and has been with us for a year.

The tribe honored us and thanked us for taking such good care of their children.
Yesterday when I got up at 5:00 AM I saw our 7 year old had fallen asleep on the couch and my wife had coved her up. She was awake and I asked her what she was smiling about. She looked up and said that I am happy because tomorrow we are going to be adopted. I do not know how she knew. We have had so many disappointments that we do not tell them when there will be a hearing.
Vickie and our two two grown daughters who each have five children are headed out in a few days on a road trip in two vans to Disney World.
We were told that it would be impossible to adopt these children.
We have learned to believe in miracles.
 

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Great job, big kudos to both of you guys! :)
We are in the process of qualifying for fostering & adopting here. Your story is a great inspiration to us.

Thanks for sharing. :thumbup:

thx - cpr
 
Congratulations! My two adopted kids, now adults, are two of the high points of my life. If possible, the grandchildren are even better!:D
 
CONGRATULATIONS!! And God bless you and your wife for all the love that you are showing them. They have a blessed life with you and your wife. The gifts you are giving these children.......It all brings tear of joy to my eyes, and fills my heart with love.
 
What beautiful children.

Congratulations to you and your wife, and may your family look forward to many years of continued happiness.
 
Fantastic news.

I'm sure it'll give them that extra sense of security. I am sure that's important especially for adopted children.

Great job and I wish you all the best of luck!
 
Congrats--you have beautiful children--wish them all the happiness in the world:D
 
They are beautiful kids and they are so lucky to have you and your wife as parents.

All the best for a wonderful future together.

Steven
 
My wishes for happiness for you and yours. That is a great thing going on!

And you can tell from that pic that a lot of happiness is there.

Gus
 
Thanks for sharing that.

With all the negatives one hears, it is good to hear good things.

God bless you guys.
 
Your story really strikes a chord with me. My Mom was briefly married to an unpleasant, abusive man and they conceived me. Mom was smart enough to get us out of a bad situation. I got exactly ONE birthday card from my "father" in my entire life. No visits, no phone calls, no child support.

Mom eventually met and married a good man, when I was about 7. By choice, he adopted me, gave me his last name and raised me as his own. Although we sometimes fought like cats and dogs (99% my fault), he never, ever turned his back on me, even when I disappointed him. I was a real pain as a kid and teenager, but Mom and Dad taught me the lessons I needed. I'm pretty sure I'd be in deep trouble today if it wasn't for their guidance.

That man was my Dad, and I will forever be grateful to Mom and him for doing their best for me. I'm proud that my daughter has his last name.

Blood is thicker than water, but sometimes love is stronger than blood.

God bless you for providing those kids with a Mom and Dad. :thumbup:
 
It is like a cloud has been lifted. It is hard to live in a situation so long where you know that a member of your family that has been as much a part of you as your own flesh and blood can be taken from you at any time for any reason. My wife deserves all the credit. She provides boundaries and I spoil them. I have found nothing in life as satisfying as being part of a family and seeing you children grow into balanced productive adults.
Vickie and the girls sill be leaving in a few hours for their long deserved 5000 mile expedition to Florida. I hope to fly down to meet them in a few weeks.
Life is good.
 
Man this is a great story, Made me smile from ear to ear. Congratulations!!! Thank you very much for lifting up my day!
 
I'm certainly not alone in that your writing touched my heart!

Its truly beautiful that your lady and you create a family for these children, and a very happy, loving family it is too.

I've always believed that children are the most precious people in society, and its lovely to read that your love and kindness ensure a happy childhood, and a positive transition into young adulthood for these lovely kids.

Very well done!
 
Congratulations. My wife works with foster children so I know a little bit about what you speak. There was a legal notice in the paper the other day regarding some children's parents. I asked her if this was the step up or shut up notice and she said yes. Thank you for sticking with it and perservering throughout this long process. Remember Garrison Keillor's saying, "Nothing you do for children is wasted."

My cousin and her husband have also adopted five girls through similar circumstances. I was about to PM you and ask if you if we knew each other until you mentioned your son... :D
 
Congratulations on your family! Those smiles have certainly brightened my day, thank you very much!
 
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