<font face="Verdana, Arial" size="2">Originally posted by Chariot:
That's why I ask. There's a lot of people that say "my self-defense is extremely effective" "I train the best self-defense" etc etc and my question is rather simple: HOW do you KNOW?
Now since we're unabable to actually test our styles under real life circumstances, the next best thing's gotta be some type of fullcontact-pretty-much-anything-goes-sparring, and unless you do that, you DON'T know...
So because of that I ask "how do you know, ", not to offend Protector (who I know got a lot of experience) or anyone else, but because I'm curious.
You worked a lot with FMA, please tell your views on doing something as effective and close to realiy as possible. I'm sure we all can learn something.
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So, I think you're saying a NHB fight is a way to prove an art is effective?
But doesn't that only prove it was effective against whoever you were fighting on that given instance, under those given circumstances.
How do you separate the individual element and the lack of real life emotions, from the equation?
In other words, one fighter could be in better shape, or a tougher mentality, and a NHB fight is nowhere close to a real situation emotionally.
The bottom line is you can't prove anything about an art, talking about how effective it is on a message board. And in a face to face NHB confrontation, it is really not much easier to "prove" anything about how good an art is.
The only thing that can be proven is one man can beat another and even that may turn out different the next time.
Everyone who trains has to trust in his training, trust that it will provide what is necessary when the time comes. There is no way to really prove it will work.
You may believe that if you beat some other guy in a NHB match that your art is effective. Well, that is what it takes to prove it to you, but it still doesn't mean it will really work.
"my self-defense is extremely effective" "I train the best self-defense" etc etc and my question is rather simple: HOW do you KNOW?
Answer: you trust in your training.
because there is no way to KNOW
But I'll tell you my way to get the faith that what I'm doing is effective, is I train as close to real as possible.
That means when we leave the training, many of us are hurt and bleeding, bruised or have broken bones. I also believe in going out and getting in real situations in order to train, I have purposely worked in violent Nightclubs and Bars the last ten years, for two reasons. 1) I like the action and fighting. 2) It is good training.
The great thing about getting in fights in bars and back alleys is there is a lot of adrenaline and emotions, anything can happen, and there is no mat or rules and no referee to stop the fight. This makes a big difference because you realize that if you make a mistake and get knocked out, or just slip and he gets the better of you, there is no one there to stop the fight, he stops when he gets tired of hitting you. That's pressure.
The bad side to this training is you will get killed or arrested if you don't know what your doing, and even if you know what you're doing it still might happen.
I have talked with many prominent Filipino Martial artist, and told them that that is the way I like to train, and also it gives me a reference when I'm teaching others.
They look at me like I'm some kind of Cro-Magnon, or at least uncivilized in my approach to training, but like I said before, the only person you have to prove it to is yourself.
Tom Kier
SAYOC KALI