It's official now, I'm Engaged!!

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Last year, I met the love of my life. I knew right away that she was the woman I would marry. She is my best friend, my lover, my life partner and dare I say my soulmate. She's so incredibly smart and beautiful, has great values and morals, she's adventurous, artistic, etc. and she makes me a better man.

Near the holidays, months after we started dating, I asked her if she would marry me on a whim and she said "of course." We considered ourselves engaged, but of course it wasn't official.

That day, I set out to find the perfect ring. Shea is a very gifted artist, so I knew that I had to give her a piece of art. Having no artistic skill of my own, I had to find a jeweler who could make my vision a reality. After weeks of searching, I found a jeweler in California. I could tell from his other work and from speaking with him that he'd be able to make my vision a realty, and he came highly recommended.

I commissioned the ring in late February. I told him what I was looking for and he said he'd make a few sketches for me. He got it right on first try, so I gave him the go ahead. On May 14th, I received the finished ring in the mail. At that point, I had already planned my romantic proposal.

I'll save you all of the details, but on May 16th, I met Shea at the entrance to the Arnold Arboretum, a beautiful park in Boston, which was the spot where we met for our first date. I got down on one knee almost immediately and asked her. Once she could catch her breath, she said yes and I put the ring on her finger. Afterwards, we went on a romantic tour/hike of the Arboretum that I had set up. It was a bit tough since she wore heels for the first time ever, pretty much. It was really the best day of my life, and Shea and I are so happy.

When I asked Shea what she wanted in a ring, she had no idea because she doesn't wear rings. Her only request was sapphires.

Here's the first sketch that he sent to me:
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~8 weeks later, I got these pictures sent to me:
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Down on one knee:
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Here it is on her finger:
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I think it's the prettiest piece of metal I've ever seen, even though its platinum and not INFI.

I really wish we were able to make it to Blade this year, but health and timing kept me from going. I would love to have celebrated my engagement with all of you and it would've been cool to score something to commemorate the engagement (maybe a pair of steak knives for us and a MOAB for myself :p)

We have not set a date yet, but I will be contacting Garth for a cake knife fairly soon. Any ideas for a good cake knife would be appreciated. I think it'd be cool if we each had an Elmax steak knife for our dinner at the ceremony.
 
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Congratulations man that is a gorgeous ring. I'm sorry to hear that your off the market, another player down ;) :thumbup:
 
Wow, that is a sweet ring and I don't care for jewelry much. Congratulations and best wishes!
Your story of how you met and knew reminds me of my wife when we met, and she wanted sapphires too.
 
Congrats! That ring is amazing. My wife is my best friend and the best thing that happened to me. May you have a long and loving marriage.
 
Congrats Flux. Finding the right woman is the beginning of a life full of joy and happiness. Sapphire is also the stone of choice for my wife.
 
Congrats!! Flux :thumbup: :D I suggest you get a MOAB cake knife. :D
 
Thank you all for your kind words. Forgive the long story.

The TLDR version is that I had a custom ring made and am now officially engaged.

Oh and I need a cake knife :D.

A MOAB sounds about right. A KZ II might have to do, however, unless I can find one.
 
Congratulations Flux!!!
I think a Custom Shop MOAB would be a superb cake!!!
 
Good for you. The ring is art! :-) Congrats. Remember...Two is one and one is none. Become one together.
 
Holy Freaking Wowza!!!

Man that ring is off the freaking hook! Nice setup in the park too. Classy guy you! Chicks dig that stuff!.....lol !!
 
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